Is Homosexuality a Choice or Are You Born That Way?

• Tinkertrain

  freehuddlers what say ye?
• sleeper

  

  Born.
• GoChiefs

  

  I have a hard time believing you are 'born gay'. It's a choice IMO.
• bigdaddy2003

  

  GoChiefs wrote: I have a hard time believing you are 'born gay'. It's a choice IMO.

  This.
• darbypitcher22

  

  I say its a choice.
  
  I'm pretty sure if you got down on your knees you'd be able to decided pretty quickly whether you like sucking dick or not or having it rammed in your asshole.
  
  Same with lesbos and rug munching
• mallymal614

  Choice.
• GeneralsIcer89

  Yes, because people choose to be put through hell their entire lives.
  
  Born that way.
• Hammerin'Hank

  Choice
• mallymal614

  If some people is supposedly born gay, why would God give men a penis with sperm inside to reproduce? Why would God give women periods and milk in their breast, if they are suppose to be born gay and not have any children? Hope I’m not getting too graphic posting these examples lol.
• GoChiefs

  

  GeneralsIcer89 wrote: Yes, because people choose to be put through hell their entire lives.

  But you do have the choice to be straight or gay. So yes...they do choose.
• GeneralsIcer89

  mallymal614 wrote: If some people is supposedly born gay, why would God give men a penis with sperm inside to reproduce? Why would God give women periods and milk in their breast, if they are suppose to be born gay and not have any children? Hope I’m not getting too graphic posting these examples lol.

  You *do* realize that some people are born incapable of reproduction, and that some people who are born should *never* reproduce, correct?
• GeneralsIcer89

  GoChiefs wrote:

  GeneralsIcer89 wrote: Yes, because people choose to be put through hell their entire lives.

  But you do have the choice to be straight or gay. So yes...they do choose.

  Did you choose to be straight? Or did the opposite sex turn you on ever since your hormones kicked in?
• BRF

  

  Choice, for all the reasons previously given.
• mallymal614

  GeneralsIcer89 wrote:

  mallymal614 wrote: If some people is supposedly born gay, why would God give men a penis with sperm inside to reproduce? Why would God give women periods and milk in their breast, if they are suppose to be born gay and not have any children? Hope I’m not getting too graphic posting these examples lol.

  You *do* realize that some people are born incapable of reproduction, and that some people who are born should *never* reproduce, correct?

  So are you pretty much saying that people who aren’t capable of reproducing, God intended for them to be Gay? My Aunt can’t have kids, so she must be going against God’s will because she is a heterosexual.
• FanOfCats

  Born.
  
  Maybe it's not how God intended, but definitely born that way. Do they have a "choice"? Sure, and I think many "gay" people choose to lead straight lives. But I think "gay" (as it is defined) is in the chemical make up.
• CinciX12

  

  Supposedly there are studies that say gay people's brains are slightly different than us normal people. Yeah, gay people, I used the word normal.
  
  Its 110% a choice.
• Tinkertrain

  I'm inclined to believe that people are born gay for the most part. I mean honestly I think we all know someone who was a little "different" as a child.
• GeneralsIcer89

  mallymal614 wrote:

  GeneralsIcer89 wrote:

  mallymal614 wrote: If some people is supposedly born gay, why would God give men a penis with sperm inside to reproduce? Why would God give women periods and milk in their breast, if they are suppose to be born gay and not have any children? Hope I’m not getting too graphic posting these examples lol.

  You *do* realize that some people are born incapable of reproduction, and that some people who are born should *never* reproduce, correct?

  So are you pretty much saying that people who aren’t capable of reproducing, God intended for them to be Gay? My Aunt can’t have kids, so she must be going against God’s will because she is a heterosexual.

  Wow, way to put words in my mouth. No, your original point implies that all people are meant to reproduce based on what they have. I'm saying that your argument is meaningless because people incapable of reproduction exist.
• 2kool4skool

  

  I don't remember choosing to be straight. I remember finding a porn in 5th grade and thinking, "hmm, I'd like to do that."
  
  You think people are just choosing to be gay? If so, then gay people are the mentally toughest people in the world. In fact, I vote we only allow gay people in the special forces. Because naturally straight people choosing to take it up the ass their entire lives for attention or whatever is beyond anything I can even imagine being capable of.
• CenterBHSFan

  

  I don't think people "learn" to be gay. It's not something that is conditioned into them.
  Like FoC said, it's in the chemical make up.
• darbypitcher22

  

  Anybody see the ad banner for All-Gay cruises at the top of the page when this thread opens up?
• gut

  GoChiefs wrote: I have a hard time believing you are 'born gay'. It's a choice IMO.

  What makes you believe this? Are you attracted to people of the same sex and simply choose not to sleep with them?
• 2kool4skool

  

  CinciX12 wrote: Supposedly there are studies that say gay people's brains are slightly different than us normal people. Yeah, gay people, I used the word normal.
  
  Its 110% a choice.

  If their brains are different, wouldn't that mean they were born that way?
  

  mallymal614 wrote: If some people is supposedly born gay, why would God give men a penis with sperm inside to reproduce? Why would God give women periods and milk in their breast, if they are suppose to be born gay and not have any children? Hope I’m not getting too graphic posting these examples lol.

  You're basing your stance on the premise that there's 100% for sure a god. That's fine, but you can't expect everyone else to accept your premise as fact.
  
  Plus, maybe god wanted to create gay people to see how we'd treat those different than us? Maybe this is all a big test and a lot of people are failing? How can you possibly interpret what exactly god is thinking?
• Scarlet_Buckeye

  

  Definitely a choice.
• Society

  darbypitcher22 wrote: I say its a choice.
  
  I'm pretty sure if you got down on your knees you'd be able to decided pretty quickly whether you like sucking dick or not or having it rammed in your asshole.
  
  Same with lesbos and rug munching

  Ha Ha! +12
  
  No further discussion needed.