Engagement Rings

geeblock

Member

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 4:10 PM

Where is the best place to get one? I have checked out several places around columbus so far the diamond cellar and Alexander’s in the short north. Others have recommended places like diamonds direct, James Allen, Costco or blue nile. Anyone have experience or recommendations? I have about 4500-6000 price range cash as a budget 

queencitybuckeye

Senior Member

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 4:14 PM

Got my wife's ring from the Diamond Cellar, great experience. Of course, that was pushing 30 years ago so who knows.

 

iclfan2

Reppin' the 330/216/843

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 4:28 PM

I got my ring from the guy that owns CDI Diamonds and Jewelry in Dublin. I'm not sure how it would have been if I had gone into the store, but the price seemed good for the grade compared to some of the other places I shopped around at. (Friend of my Dads, he brought up a few diamonds to NEO for me to look at). They can also make a custom band if wanted. Quick Google search shows that they have good reviews. 

justincredible

Honorable Admin

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 5:04 PM

Diamonds are a scam. I try to talk my wife into selling hers every once in a while but she won't do it. Btw, I went to Jared. 

like_that

1st Team All-PWN

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 5:09 PM

Find a mom and pop shop. They normally don't try to fuck you over, and they aren't dealing with high pressure sales.  It normally reduces the cost of a diamond by 2K. 

Commander of Awesome

Senior Pwner

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 5:19 PM
posted by justincredible

Diamonds are a scam. I try to talk my wife into selling hers every once in a while but she won't do it. Btw, I went to Jared. 

You're not wrong, it's a crazy business. Once I learned that Diamonds aren't a scarce resource, I was amazed. Can't think of another business like it.

Fab4Runner

Tits McGee

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 10:08 PM

My husband went to a small, local jeweler. 

iclfan2

Reppin' the 330/216/843

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 10:11 PM
posted by justincredible

Diamonds are a scam. 

Don’t disagree. But women get what they want. Would have been way better used for a down payment of something 

superman

Senior Member

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 10:23 PM

http://www.griffon-jewelers.com

 

Give thus guy a call. About an hour north hope Columbus.  He'll take good care of you.  

Laley23

GOAT

Wed, Jan 16, 2019 11:02 PM

Diamonds are what the markets make them. There are tons of lots of things in the world, but the price is still high. I wouldn’t call it a scam.

like_that

1st Team All-PWN

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 6:54 AM
posted by Laley23

Diamonds are what the markets make them. There are tons of lots of things in the world, but the price is still high. I wouldn’t call it a scam.

Me neither. As COA always says, blame disney.

vball10set

paying it forward

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 7:39 AM
posted by Laley23

Diamonds are what the markets make them. There are tons of lots of things in the world, but the price is still high. I wouldn’t call it a scam.

this...far from a scam

OSH

Kosh B'Gosh

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 8:39 AM

Gave my wife my mom's first set. They upgraded after 10 years. I told my wife that was her option -- upgraded ring or hot tub. She'll get a hot tub.

Diamonds are a scam. Ain't no reason to put that much money into something that truly doesn't mean/do anything. I'll never allow my kids to do the same with a ring (2 girls and 1 boy). Young marriages could do so much more than spending thousands on a circular band.

like_that

1st Team All-PWN

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 8:42 AM
posted by OSH

Gave my wife my mom's first set. They upgraded after 10 years. I told my wife that was her option -- upgraded ring or hot tub. She'll get a hot tub.

Diamonds are a scam. Ain't no reason to put that much money into something that truly doesn't mean/do anything. I'll never allow my kids to do the same with a ring (2 girls and 1 boy). Young marriages could do so much more than spending thousands on a circular band.

You only have to worry about one spending on a ring, and do you think you will actually have a say in what your son does when he is at the age of proposing?

geeblock

Member

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 9:05 AM

My Gf isnt the type to be worried about the price of the ring or what people think.  She would probably be happy with a ring 1/2 the price of what i'm going to spend, but I am the one who doesnt want to look cheap or whatever when she shows her friends and posts it on FB or what not.  Plus she deserves it for putting up with me for 6 years and keeping me together.  I probably shouldn't care what people think either but I do.

j_crazy

7 gram rocks. how i roll.

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 9:15 AM

got mine at kohls, 70% off sale. paid $749 for the engagement ring and the wedding band combo. absolutely best decision ive ever made.

justincredible

Honorable Admin

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 9:30 AM

Scam might be the wrong word, but their value is almost entirely propped up by an effective marketing campaign and roughly a century of a monopoly over the diamond industry. People buy diamond rings because it's just what you do, no critical thinking is involved.

OSH

Kosh B'Gosh

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 9:53 AM
posted by like_that

You only have to worry about one spending on a ring, and do you think you will actually have a say in what your son does when he is at the age of proposing?

I'll have a say, but in the end it is his decision. We'll communicate to our kids about "value." It's important to us that our kids make good decisions. Of course, depending on their situation, spending thousands is not a good decision.

j_crazy

7 gram rocks. how i roll.

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:15 AM
posted by justincredible

Scam might be the wrong word, but their value is almost entirely propped up by an effective marketing campaign and roughly a century of a monopoly over the diamond industry. People buy diamond rings because it's just what you do, no critical thinking is involved.

which is why i am happy with my choice to get the cheapest version of these pieces of shit that i could.

 

 

QuakerOats

Senior Member

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:38 AM

First, pick the stone you want from a local, long-standing gemologist.  Then decide on the setting/ring, and what would look best for the stone you chose.

 

Automatik

Senior Member

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:43 AM

I have nothing to add to the OP

But this is funny to share...

My friend called off his marriage a week AFTER the engagement photos were taken and blasted all over the internet. He paid 30k for the ring, still hasn't gotten it back (and I don't think he will).

 

LOL

OSH

Kosh B'Gosh

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:47 AM
posted by Automatik

I have nothing to add to the OP

But this is funny to share...

My friend called off his marriage a week AFTER the engagement photos were taken and blasted all over the internet. He paid 30k for the ring, still hasn't gotten it back (and I don't think he will).

An attorney friend of mine told me when I was engaged that whoever gave the ring is entitled to get it back. Courts will rule in their favor, if needed.

iclfan2

Reppin' the 330/216/843

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:48 AM
posted by Automatik

I have nothing to add to the OP

But this is funny to share...

My friend called off his marriage a week AFTER the engagement photos were taken and blasted all over the internet. He paid 30k for the ring, still hasn't gotten it back (and I don't think he will).

 

LOL

Lol woah. Is your friend rich?

Automatik

Senior Member

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 10:52 AM

I wouldn't say "rich", but definitely well off and smart with his money.....until this happened.

His ex fiance's fam is loaded though. Rumor is they spent 20k+ on the fucking engagement party that was called off. I'm thinking that's why he hasn't fought much to get it back. It's a sensitive topic so I haven't really talked much about it with him. 

He handled it in the absolute worst way though. He made the decision that he wanted out in the summer, but it took him months to sack up and break it off.

iclfan2

Reppin' the 330/216/843

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 11:05 AM
posted by Automatik

He handled it in the absolute worst way though. He made the decision that he wanted out in the summer, but it took him months to sack up and break it off.

Should have waited until she took it off to do the dishes or something, then snatched that shit up. $30k is insane for a ring, even if you have the savings, unless you're making like $200k a year (and even then I still wouldn't personally)

Automatik

Senior Member

Thu, Jan 17, 2019 11:09 AM

100% agree. I wouldn't even consider being with, let alone marrying a girl that would get off to a 30k ring.