Just having a bad night

• vdubb96

  

  ZWICK 4 PREZ;1473732 wrote:you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.

  Is Belly Chinese?
• Belly35

  

  vdubb96;1473829 wrote:Is Belly Chinese?

  grasshopper .. mofo
• vdubb96

  

  Belly35;1473835 wrote:grasshopper .. mofo

  Got ya mofo!
• Crimson streak

  

  thavoice;1473817 wrote:That you know of. What she actually owns up to and admits is usually just a fraction to what she has done. Hold on tight as you are going to be on a rocky rocky ride. Don't fall into the trap of being the fall back guy either when her relationship flops.

  
  She didnt tell me I looked up the cell phone bill lol
• Heretic

  

  dlazz;1473322 wrote:You alone are proof that alcohol is a bad thing.

  I look at him as more of a fringe outlier than an actual indictment of alcohol.
• thavoice

  Crimson streak;1473889 wrote:She didnt tell me I looked up the cell phone bill lol

  Stalker. You probably pushed her away by smothering her, which brings to the next idea that the latter could also solve your problem........
• Crimson streak

  

  thavoice;1473927 wrote:Stalker. You probably pushed her away by smothering her, which brings to the next idea that the latter could also solve your problem........

  
  I heard from her friend that she was with the other guy Friday. And I questioned her about it bc it wasn't even 2 days after we took a break. She said they were friends and then they kissed that night. I can understand she probably felt lonely I get that. I asked her how she knew him and she said she knew him
  Before we met which I knew was a lie and then I asked her if they talked while we were together and she said no so I checked the cell phone bill and she had been talking to him for 2 months now.,
• dlazz

  Sounds like a shitty situation. She obviously lying now. Her credibility is slipping by the day.
  
  Don't rationalize her actions for her. "She probably felt lonely I get that". Don't rationalize her behavior. It's pointless. She's just letting her true colors shine.
  
  Sounds like you're better off without her.
• Crimson streak

  

  Yeah I know. I did push her away the last 2 years. I blamed her a lot for my failures and picked dumb fights. I think it's mainly this guy is giving her attention and she's not used to it because I've been kinda a dick to her the last couple months. We're going to counseling tomorrow for my daughters sake to basically get closure and to get along for my daughter
• dlazz

  That's all I'd focus on anymore. Being a good parent for your daughter.
• ZWICK 4 PREZ

  

  dlazz;1474140 wrote:
  Don't rationalize her actions for her. "She probably felt lonely I get that". Don't rationalize her behavior. It's pointless. She's just letting her true colors shine.
  
  Sounds like you're better off without her.

  exactly
  
  listen to this song a few times and accept it about her and move on.
  
  [video=youtube;0JsUb7c-Dqo][/video]
• Pick6

  

  Sorry to hear man.
  
  Screw this chick (figuratively). Who knows what else she has done while you guys were together, or what she would do in the future. I've seen too many chicks like this.
• Ironman92

  

  Here's the song for this....if you've never heard it give it 1 minute and you'll think of this situation the rest of your life.
  
  http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hKqZjgIfxe0&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DhKqZjgIfxe0
• Ironman92

  

  Ironman92;1474276 wrote:Here's the song for this....if you've never heard it give it 1 minute and you'll think of this situation the rest of your life.
  
  http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hKqZjgIfxe0&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DhKqZjgIfxe0

  
  Of course I fucked it up. SMH
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  Crimson streak;1474193 wrote:Yeah I know. I did push her away the last 2 years. I blamed her a lot for my failures and picked dumb fights. I think it's mainly this guy is giving her attention and she's not used to it because I've been kinda a dick to her the last couple months. We're going to counseling tomorrow for my daughters sake to basically get closure and to get along for my daughter

  bat to the knee, he'll the picture. I don't have kids, but I can imagine i'd be a ball of rage seeing the other guy with my son/daughter. I'd be irrational and nothing good would happen.
• Crimson streak

  

  Raw Dawgin' it;1474339 wrote:bat to the knee, he'll the picture. I don't have kids, but I can imagine i'd be a ball of rage seeing the other guy with my son/daughter. I'd be irrational and nothing good would happen.

  
  He hasn't been around her at all. If she ever was you better believe I'm going to be knocking at his door
• Scarlet_Buckeye

  

  Crimson streak;1474352 wrote:He hasn't been around her at all. If she ever was you better believe I'm going to be knocking at his door

  This is the point I am trying to make. You WON'T be able to stop her from bringing men around your daughter. Even though that is something that is going upset you, you can't legally stop that from happening. Especially since you aren't even married. That is why I am trying to tell you that IF there is anything that you can due through counseling to help salvage the relationship now that you need to try that. You will have to put what has happened with your baby mama and this dude behind you and move forward. Otherwise, you are in for MANY MANY years of your daughter being around your ex with other guys with you being basically helpless to stop it. If you think things are complicated NOW with this relationship, it is bound to get more complicated. It takes a mature man to swallow his pride and REALLY try and make an effort to make things work. Best of luck to you.
• Crimson streak

  

  Well a little update on this... We went to some counseling sessions and such and we were hanging out a little but trying to work it out. She told me she cheated on me when we were together back in May. She was completely honest about everything so I kinda put it to the side and said we can work it out it doesn't matter we had our issues in the past and let's forget about it and start over. Everything was going good until I found out she was still seeing this other guy that she starting seeing a couple days after we broke up so I told her she needs to end it completely with him or I'm done and she agreed and then the next day she hung out with him and I basically told her to fuck off and we are done. Were still being civil with the whole custody shit. We are splitting 50/50 with no child support or anything like that and keeping it out of courts. I've talked to a lawyer in case she wants to blind side me with anything. (Would be a bad mistake on her part). But the best part is I went to her cousins Halloween party last Saturday and banged her cousin. It was a nice big ole fuck you.
• Devils Advocate

  

  Even would be to bang her sister and/or her mother.
  
  Cousin has gotta be worth some points though.
  
  reps!
• Crimson streak

  

  The mom and sister are pretty gross lol. I'll pass. But her cousin on the other hand is pretty damn hot. I had the biggest shit grin on my face the whole time lol.
• Devils Advocate

  

  Crimson streak;1526125 wrote:The mom and sister are pretty gross lol. I'll pass. But her cousin on the other hand is pretty damn hot. I had the biggest shit grin on my face the whole time lol.

  It aint about the hot. It's the revenge factor that interests me.
• Tiny285Joey

  

  Pics or gtfo. In all honestly having read the original post, then your catch up post, good for you bro. Id have taken pics and sent them to the ex. Thats a bigger fuck you lol.
• vdubb96

  

  Crimson streak;1526125 wrote:The mom and sister are pretty gross lol. I'll pass. But her cousin on the other hand is pretty damn hot. I had the biggest shit grin on my face the whole time lol.

  
  Congrats!!! Reps!
• thavoice

  Tiny285Joey;1526129 wrote:Pics or gtfo. In all honestly having read the original post, then your catch up post, good for you bro. Id have taken pics and sent them to the ex. Thats a bigger fuck you lol.

  ..yet the biggest fuck you will show up in about 9 months......
• Tigerfan00

  

  Crimson streak;1526122 wrote:Well a little update on this... We went to some counseling sessions and such and we were hanging out a little but trying to work it out. She told me she cheated on me when we were together back in May. She was completely honest about everything so I kinda put it to the side and said we can work it out it doesn't matter we had our issues in the past and let's forget about it and start over. Everything was going good until I found out she was still seeing this other guy that she starting seeing a couple days after we broke up so I told her she needs to end it completely with him or I'm done and she agreed and then the next day she hung out with him and I basically told her to fuck off and we are done. Were still being civil with the whole custody shit. We are splitting 50/50 with no child support or anything like that and keeping it out of courts. I've talked to a lawyer in case she wants to blind side me with anything. (Would be a bad mistake on her part). But the best part is I went to her cousins Halloween party last Saturday and banged her cousin. It was a nice big ole fuck you.

  In most cases, dont stick around once a girl cheats on you.