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Just having a bad night

  • TBone14
    Tiger2003;1473394 wrote:If you have a good marriage counselor you will be in good hand. If you guys don't feel comfortable with the counselor find someone new.

    Why should he pay for it when he has hundreds of qualified marriage counselors right here on the OC? Have the misses join and start a thread watch your relationship improve.
  • Crimson streak
    TBone14;1473397 wrote:Why should he pay for it when he has hundreds of qualified marriage counselors right here on the OC? Have the misses join and start a thread watch your relationship improve.

    Haha that could work. Too many pervs would ask for tits or gtfo
  • Ironman92
    Crimson streak;1473400 wrote:Haha that could work. Too many pervs would ask for tits or gtfo

    I don't know....with all the fuckers on here you might wind up looking pretty damn good in the grand scheme of things.

    ....oh and, we're not all pervs but we do like boobs
  • TBone14
    Ironman92;1473402 wrote:I don't know....with all the fuckers on here you might wind up looking pretty damn good in the grand scheme of things.

    ....oh and, we're not all pervs but we do like boobs

    Exactly. You can drop the, 'hey baby...look what I could be' line. I may not be the best...but I am better than a lot of those creeps.
  • Crimson streak
    TBone14;1473409 wrote:Exactly. You can drop the, 'hey baby...look what I could be' line. I may not be the best...but I am better than a lot of those creeps.

    Haha that might just work
  • Laley23
    If you dont mind sharing...whats the reason for the "potential" split???

    I think that would go a long way in the advice I, and others, would give.

    If you dont want to share, its going to be pretty generic stuff, like what has been said thus far. If we have a reason, we might be able to offer better advice on how to heal the issue if you truly to want to make it work, etc.
  • sherm03
    Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.

    And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
  • Belly35
    sherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.

    And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
    Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republican
  • Commander of Awesome
    Belly35;1473638 wrote:Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republican
    Your wife is as _ as you are? Congrats? Good thing all people/women are created equally belly /sarcasm.
  • robj55
    Hope things get better man, life has its ups and downs, hang in there.
  • Commander of Awesome
    sherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.

    And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
    Prob the worst I've ever seen.
  • Crimson streak
    Well she's already hanging out with some other guy. So I told her that were done completely. Might still go to counseling for our daughters sake so things don't get bad that it affects her. Honestly I actually feel better about this. Her loss. Now I get to concentrate on my child more
  • Tiger2003
    Crimson streak;1473689 wrote:Well she's already hanging out with some other guy. So I told her that were done completely. Might still go to counseling for our daughters sake so things don't get bad that it affects her. Honestly I actually feel better about this. Her loss. Now I get to concentrate on my child more

    Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
  • Ironman92
    Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.

    Yeah....it probably does.

    Move on...be a great Dad.
  • Crimson streak
    Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.

    Met him at a bar 2 months ago. Hung out with him 2 days after we broke up. I asked her about it and she said they only kissed it was nothing I was willing to move past it and I told her please don't go hang out with this guy until we go to counseling and I found out she hung out with him again tonight not even an hour after we have that conversation. So fuck her I'm moving on
  • Crimson streak
    I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
  • mcburg93
    Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
    This will bug you but move on. It seems she thinks the grass is greener on the other side. My advise is to take care of you and your daughter. Be civil and keep peace the best you can. I wouldn't even mess with counseling now. Keep your head up and maybe bang her mom, grandma, sister, aunt, or even her dad if that is something you are into lol.
  • sportchampps
    Good choice to move on I commend you on making that difficult decieson. Just make the promise to yourself that when something goes wrong for her and the other guy and she comes running back to make sure you know you have other options as well. Just concentrate on your child and creating some new friendships and relationships. As cliche as it is when a door closes a new one opens. Use your new freedom to do the things you wanted to do but were to busy to do. Reconnect with friends who maybe you haven't hung out with as much because of this relationship (they will be glad to have you back).
  • ZWICK 4 PREZ
    you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.
  • ohiobucks1
    ZWICK 4 PREZ;1473732 wrote:you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.
    You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriends
  • ZWICK 4 PREZ
    ohiobucks1;1473737 wrote:You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriends
    I envision Belly having a slanted eye under his patch
  • Raw Dawgin' it
    Crimson streak;1473695 wrote:Met him at a bar 2 months ago. Hung out with him 2 days after we broke up. I asked her about it and she said they only kissed it was nothing I was willing to move past it and I told her please don't go hang out with this guy until we go to counseling and I found out she hung out with him again tonight not even an hour after we have that conversation. So fuck her I'm moving on
    I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.
  • ohiobucks1
    Raw Dawgin' it;1473739 wrote:I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.
    On a serious note, if Crim does this and the guy considerers it a threat, it could really hurt Crimson down the line in terms of keeping custody of his kids.


    Also on that same related subject, DO NOT talk any type of dirt about the mom to your daughter. That can be used against you very easily as well. I know you say you have an amicable situation with the EX right now, but it may get worse and you want to be prepared. THE FIRST sign you get that she wants to take any sort of custody from you, you need to Lawyer up and do it quick. I'm serious. Any indication at all and youll need help. The sooner you do it, the better chance you have of keeping your girl.
  • thavoice
    Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
    That you know of. What she actually owns up to and admits is usually just a fraction to what she has done. Hold on tight as you are going to be on a rocky rocky ride. Don't fall into the trap of being the fall back guy either when her relationship flops.
  • said_aouita
    TBone14;1473279 wrote:Couple of things:

    1. I am always surprised at the amount of good posts threads like this get on here. Most people are actually helpful and supportive of a total stranger when this board is usually full of sarcasm and hate.
    and I noticed like_that hasn't posted either.