What would you think and do? Should I be pissed.

• Tiernan

  I prefer to think the worst of people until they prove me wrong and do something good to earn my respect.
• ernest_t_bass

  

  Tiernan;851464 wrote:I prefer to think the worst of people until they prove me wrong and do something good to earn my respect.

  
  Nothing wrong with being cynical!
• Tiernan

  ernest_t_bass;851465 wrote:Nothing wrong with being cynical!

  It sure saves being let down by most people who can't meet expectations.
• enigmaax

  ernest_t_bass;851457 wrote:Basically, when you put so much blame (for all of YOUR problems) on your ex, the EX is the only person who can settle those blames. Take control of your own actions/thoughts/feelings, and move on.

  Well said.
  
  Also didn't want the following to get lost in all this:

  ernest_t_bass;850944 wrote:So you're fat AND ugly?

• sej

  

  thavoice;849474 wrote:yes. technology phux up sometimes.
  
  But....
  
  This is a flip phone. It isnt like someone accidently hit the button to call voicemail or whatever. A voice mail was listened to, a text message read.
  
  So...why would she keep on lying? Ever heard of the saying 'That's my story and I am sticking to it"?
  
  
  I have dropped the issue. I really dont care anymore. It is just one of many things piled up against her. If she doesnt get in my way, I wont get in hers

  
  
  That doesn't strike me as a very pleasant way to live.
• dwccrew

  

  Con_Alma;850490 wrote:No apology necessary.
  
  You mean intentionally? People lie intentionally to their spouses? In general, that would be very surprising to me. Sure I can see some idiots out their doing so but by and large it would be surprising to me.
  
  I guess I just don't understand why someone would choose to lie to the most important person in their life who they have chosen to be their life partner and friend.
  
  Is it selfishness?
  
  Finally, I am not Holy at all...certainly not Holier than any other.

  
  Either you are playing holier than thou, are lying or you're an idiot. Which one is it? You are actually questioning whether people intentionally lie to their spouses? What fantasy land do you live in? It happens often. Do you think there is no people in the world that cheat on their spouses? You are a troll, nothing more.
• thavoice

  sej;851706 wrote:That doesn't strike me as a very pleasant way to live.

  
  Oh.
  
  It isnt.
• DeyDurkie5

  

  dwccrew;852166 wrote:Either you are playing holier than thou, are lying or you're an idiot. Which one is it? You are actually questioning whether people intentionally lie to their spouses? What fantasy land do you live in? It happens often. Do you think there is no people in the world that cheat on their spouses? You are a troll, nothing more.

  
  for how smart and "better than you" con alma portrays, he is pretty much an idiot
• enigmaax

  thavoice;852302 wrote:Oh.
  
  It isnt.

  
  You got any chloroform or duct tape? A trunk? How about a pool? You don't have to swim in the pool.
• Steel Valley Football

  dwccrew;852166 wrote:Either you are playing holier than thou, are lying or you're an idiot. Which one is it? You are actually questioning whether people intentionally lie to their spouses? What fantasy land do you live in? It happens often. Do you think there is no people in the world that cheat on their spouses? You are a troll, nothing more.

  
  How the hell did you get into my mind and steal my thoughts???