What would you think and do? Should I be pissed.

• O-Trap

  

  gorocks99;844596 wrote:PIIHB as payback.

  superman;844717 wrote:Does she have a sister? If so, you know what to do.

  
  Best pieces of advice.
  

  password;844891 wrote:You need to set her up, have one of your friends ask their woman to help you out. You leave your phone at home next time you go for a run, have the girl call your phone and leave a sexy message asking where you are at, because she is still waiting for you but she only has about a hour or two to meet before her husband gets home from work and she really wants to feel you explode inside her. Then have her comment on how nice it was for you to pay for the new lingerie that she is wearing right now.
  
  I guarantee, who ever is checking your phone will come forward and admit to the crime as soon as you walk through the door.

  
  Yeah, with a steak knife.
• password

  

  O-Trap;844899 wrote:
  Yeah, with a steak knife.

  
  That will teach her to snoop around, when she serves 5 - 10 for attempted murder.
• O-Trap

  

  password;844909 wrote:That will teach her to snoop around, when she serves 5 - 10 for attempted murder.

  
  Problem is keeping it from becoming 25 to life.
• Pick6

  

  in defense of your wife
  
  I have an iphone.....i get texts, missed calls, voicemails, emails seems like everyday that dont show up as a notification...and i am the only person who has my phone. weird shit can happen with technology
• password

  

  I don't claim to have all the answers, it really depends how bad he wants to prove she is lying about the phone.
• password

  

  Pick6;844913 wrote:in defense of your wife
  
  I have an iphone.....i get texts, missed calls, voicemails, emails seems like everyday that dont show up as a notification...and i am the only person who has my phone. weird shit can happen with technology

  
  This one I do agree with. AT&T is well known to have complaints that deal with this type of problem.
• password

  

  O-Trap;844911 wrote:Problem is keeping it from becoming 25 to life.

  
  
  I don't claim to have all the answers, it really depends how bad he wants to prove she is lying about the phone.
• Curly J

  

  I was going to say Upper Deck her, but then that would effect you too.
• bigkahuna

  Curly J;844939 wrote:I was going to say Upper Deck her, but then that would effect you too.

  
  What if they have his and her sinks and he just shits in the sink and says someone must have come in the house and shat in the sink.
• earwig

  I'm beginning to think the step daughter did it. She'd the creepy one in this whole thing and her forte' is electronic devices...
• ts1227

  

  gorocks99;844596 wrote:PIIHB as payback.

  
  This.
  
  I was hoping no one had said this yet, lol.
• I Am Ahab

  I've never had a problem w my iPhone not showing notifications but obviously that's a possibility. The answer seems to be sending yourself texts or voicemails from another phone and see if they're showing up or if they're being checked before you get to the phone.
  
  You have the ability to gain some major upper hand here. Play the game. Because that's what relationships are all about. Winning the games.
• Scooter1369

  

  I had some urgent emails not come through to my phone these last few days, while less important ones did. Its never happened to me before, but when I saw them they weren't marked as read. That requires someone to actually access the message.
  
  This whole situation is going to require a lot talking between you two.
  
  For the record, one of the key signs that your spouse is cheating is that they constantly accuse you of doing it or show suspicion and lack of trust on the subject. Take that anyway you want.
• thavoice

  Pick6;844913 wrote:in defense of your wife
  
  I have an iphone.....i get texts, missed calls, voicemails, emails seems like everyday that dont show up as a notification...and i am the only person who has my phone. weird **** can happen with technology

  
  I am in the industry and know that stuff can happen where the notification doesnt show up.
  
  It happens.
  
  BUT.......
  
  The phone didnt show a missed call when i got home from my run.
  It didnt show a voicemail.
  It didnt show a text message.
  
  
  The next morning when I was checking my phone while on the crapper I looked in the call log and it said a missed call, AND a call to voicemail. Someone had called my voicemail, from my phone, while I was gone. When I went into my voicemail it didnt say a new message, but a skipped one, meaning it was listened to but not deleted or saved.
  
  I get what you are saying, but I am ruling that out because someone called voicemail from my phone, and checked a text message.
  
  
  
  I should tell her with her next paycheck to go buy all new locks because someone obviosuly must have came in to our house.
• thavoice

  earwig;845251 wrote:I'm beginning to think the step daughter did it. She'd the creepy one in this whole thing and her forte' is electronic devices...

  
  Nah. She has no reason to, plus she is so f'n oblivious to anything other than her phone and ipod.
• Glory Days

  

  What time was the missed call and what time was the call to your voicemail?
  
  and do any of your kids call anyone uncle who isnt your their real uncle?
• O-Trap

  

  thavoice;845419 wrote:I am in the industry and know that stuff can happen where the notification doesnt show up.
  
  It happens.
  
  BUT.......
  
  The phone didnt show a missed call when i got home from my run.
  It didnt show a voicemail.
  It didnt show a text message.
  
  
  The next morning when I was checking my phone while on the crapper I looked in the call log and it said a missed call, AND a call to voicemail. Someone had called my voicemail, from my phone, while I was gone. When I went into my voicemail it didnt say a new message, but a skipped one, meaning it was listened to but not deleted or saved.
  
  I get what you are saying, but I am ruling that out because someone called voicemail from my phone, and checked a text message.
  
  
  
  I should tell her with her next paycheck to go buy all new locks because someone obviosuly must have came in to our house.

  
  I would say that you should beef up the security on your phone as well.
  
  What did the text and VM say, anyway?
• thavoice

  Glory Days;845434 wrote:What time was the missed call and what time was the call to your voicemail?
  
  and do any of your kids call anyone uncle who isnt your their real uncle?

  I left at 620. Missed call was at 634. Call to voicemail was 657 (for 91 seconds). Text was around 630 as well.
  Got home at 715-720. I just glanced at phone to see if anything and it showed nothing I missed. I just checked from the outside screen.
  When I got home dinner was partially done. So, either someone came in MINUTES before the family got home, or she got home right about that time and checked the message.
  
  Voicemail woulda showed up an out of town phone number that was not stored in my address book.
  
  The message could have been very important. Very. Matter of fact, when I actually checked the message the next day when I found out someone had done this I immediately called them back. I am awaiting possible orders.
  
  Ended up being nothing....but still.....
• dwccrew

  

  Con_Alma;844415 wrote:to the best of my knowledge not the ones that plan on the relationship being a giving, loving one for the rest of their lives.

  OK? That still doesn't discount about 50% of people in relationships, hence why the divorce rate is so high.
  

  Steel Valley Football;844511 wrote:LOL at Con Alma asking if people really lie to their spouses. Again and again, he tries to show everyone here how special and different he is.

  
  Doesn't have to lock his doors at his house when he's on vacation either.
• thavoice

  dwccrew;845503 wrote:OK? That still doesn't discount about 50% of people in relationships, hence why the divorce rate is so high.
  
  
  
  Doesn't have to lock his doors at his house when he's on vacation either.

  
  To be honest, i would feel comfortable with not locking our house when we go on vacation.
• dwccrew

  

  thavoice;845504 wrote:To be honest, i would feel comfortable with not locking our house when we go on vacation.

  
  Well you may want to start locking your cell phone first.
• thavoice

  Well if the wife goes on vacation with me then there shouldnt be anyone who would get into my voicemail then...........
• Bigdogg

  Welcome to marriage voice. Just wait, step kids are really challenging also, you aint see nothing yet! You had a good thing going till you screwed it up!
• O-Trap

  

  Con_Alma;844415 wrote:to the best of my knowledge not the ones that plan on the relationship being a giving, loving one for the rest of their lives.

  
  The best-laid plans of mice and men ...
  

  thavoice;845510 wrote:Well if the wife goes on vacation with me then there shouldnt be anyone who would get into my voicemail then...........

  
  Actually, if she comes with you, and your phone comes with you, I'd say there is DEFINITELY someone who would get into your voicemail ... perchance while you're in the restroom or out running.
• thavoice

  Bigdogg;845580 wrote:Welcome to marriage voice. Just wait, step kids are really challenging also, you aint see nothing yet! You had a good thing going till you screwed it up!

  
  No truer statement has ever been spoken.
  
  Favor bud, dont be blabbing this at all.
  
  I know that may seem odd to say but no one knows me here.......and last thing I want is it to get back to her ya know.