Should I let my 19 yr old son date a 15 yr old?

• Steel Valley Football

  Is this normal or I have raised a pedophile?
  
  His mom and I are about to kick him out the house because we told him and he won't listen because he's still texting her. Her dad, Jim, is furious and wants to wax his ass. Just wanted to get your opinions.
• raiderbuck

  Negative. I wouldn't let that fly at all. Not to mention he could go to jail for dating her, and seriously mess up his image.
  
  Has he never seen To Catch a Predator?
• jmog

  Since it would be statutory rape here in Ohio, I suggest you go much farther than what you are now and really take care of this.
  
  In Ohio if you are 18+ it is illegal to have sex with anyone <16.
• Sonofanump

  This should be all you have to say:
  
  "She becomes legal on her 16th birthday, wait until then dumbass."
• queencitybuckeye

  The ass waxing thing is troubling, is the girl's father ETB?
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  Yeah that seems iffy. I was 17 and dated a 15 year old, some how that doesn't seem as bad ha
• Wooball

  

  The correct thing to do would be to turn your son into the property authorities. He made his choice to break the law, he should live with the consequences.
• bigkahuna

  Don't let it happen. There's a decent chance you'll be left to help fix the issues when shit goes down.
• Rotinaj

  

  Yea you need to put an end to it asap. 4 year gap isn't a big deal normally, but it definitely is in this case.
• Belly35

  

  Want your kids a loser .. send his happy ass to the military .. he will learn to grow the fuck up
  
  Can't get a girl his own age WTF up with that ... He a man kick his ass like one, you're part of the problem handle this like a man and do some asskicking . Physically kick his ass
  
  He will respect you or move out ...what the problem
• bigkahuna

  I always felt like HS romances should be a max of 2 years age difference. Think about a 17 and a 14 year old or a 16 and 13. It just seems gross to me.
• ernest_t_bass

  

  Tagteam
• TedSheckler

  

  Lucky guy.
• Steel Valley Football

  Thanks for your opinions. He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.
• jmog

  Steel Valley Football;1224093 wrote:Thanks for your opinions. He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.

  So you enable him...explains a lot...
  
  Hope this helps!
• ernest_t_bass

  

  Steel Valley Football;1224093 wrote:He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.

  
  parenting problem.
• O-Trap

  

  Depends. If by "date" you mean "rail," then no.
  
  Technically, if he really wants to date her, he can do so without breaking the law.
• queencitybuckeye

  O-Trap;1224099 wrote:Depends. If by "date" you mean "rail," then no.
  
  Technically, if he really wants to date her, he can do so without breaking the law.

  True, but only slightly less creepy, IMO.
• se-alum

  

  Wooball;1224077 wrote:The correct thing to do would be to turn your son into the property authorities. He made his choice to break the law, he should live with the consequences.

  I see what you did there...
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?
• justincredible

  

  I don't think SVF has a 19 year old son.
• Rotinaj

  

  Raw Dawgin' it;1224111 wrote:This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?

  And if not turn er over and play in the mud!
• jmog

  Raw Dawgin' it;1224111 wrote:This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?

  The culture nowadays you don't really want grass on the field do you?
• Tiernan

  Isn't this fairly standard for NE Ohio? Her Daddy is probably furious because he aint gettin' it as regular now that she has a BF.
• queencitybuckeye

  justincredible;1224118 wrote:I don't think SVF has a 19 year old son.

  That he identified the girl's father by name made me wonder if this was a reference to something I missed in current culture (which would be 99% of it).