Should I let my 19 yr old son date a 15 yr old?
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queencitybuckeye
Old enough to bleed, old enough to breed.Raw Dawgin' it;1224111 wrote:This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right? -
Raw Dawgin' it
depends how much - if it's like the putting greens that's ok, but i don't want something out of control. And I'm going to hell for typing this in a thread about a 15yo girl....jmog;1224122 wrote:The culture nowadays you don't really want grass on the field do you? -
O-Trap
If it's "Welcome to the Jungle" down there ... it's a problem.Raw Dawgin' it;1224129 wrote:depends how much - if it's like the putting greens that's ok, but i don't want something out of control. And I'm going to hell for typing this in a thread about a 15yo girl.... -
Belly35
SVF was referring to Jim as himself ..... this has to be a brother -sister relationship problem :rolleyes:queencitybuckeye;1224127 wrote:That he identified the girl's father by name made me wonder if this was a reference to something I missed in current culture (which would be 99% of it). -
vball10set
The military prolly wouldn't take him, Belly, but that sure would be his best option.Belly35;1224081 wrote:Want your kids a loser .. send his happy ass to the military .. he will learn to grow the **** up -
Belly35
The French take anyone :laugh:vball10set;1224138 wrote:The military prolly wouldn't take him, Belly, but that sure would be his best option. -
4cardsSteel Valley Football;1224093 wrote:Thanks for your opinions. He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license.[/QUOTE]
...Sounds like your pissed that you have to drop off & her Dad has to pickup! -
I Wear PantsIf this isn't some troll I find it hilarious/sad that you think you can let or not let your 19 year old son do anything. You can't. You can approve or disapprove and if the latter you can stop providing certain benefits to him such as paying for things (you noted kicking him out of the house as an option), etc. But you really can't make a grown ass adult do anything they don't want to do.
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Steel Valley FootballHe's in big trouble now. That little fucker goes and puts a video of me on the damn internet. I really hope Jim doesn't see this.
[video]http://m.worldstarhiphop.com/video.php?v=wshh9ECB9S10VEfawg63[/video] -
Steel Valley Football
This is good advice. You are totally right. Thank you.I Wear Pants;1224151 wrote:If this isn't some troll I find it hilarious/sad that you think you can let or not let your 19 year old son do anything. You can't. You can approve or disapprove and if the latter you can stop providing certain benefits to him such as paying for things (you noted kicking him out of the house as an option), etc. But you really can't make a grown ass adult do anything they don't want to do. -
Tigerfan00ernest_t_bass;1224087 wrote:Tagteam
So how do they get to each others houses if neither drives and what job are you dropping him off at?
Also, is she black? -
Steel Valley Footballjustincredible;1224118 wrote:I don't think SVF has a 19 year old son.
He's my adopted son. I love him like he's my own though. -
I Wear Pants
Yeah I mean, I'm not saying you should kick him out or anything (that's entirely up to you), but just make it very clear to him that you think this is a fucking stupid idea and why. Really all you can do about it.Steel Valley Football;1224162 wrote:This is good advice. You are totally right. Thank you. -
Steel Valley FootballTigerfan00;1224167 wrote:
So how do they get to each others houses if neither drives and what job are you dropping him off at?
Also, is she black?
He is black. He's really light-skinned black though. -
Tigerfan00
Anyone else notice the video was submitted by JJ.Steel Valley Football;1224161 wrote:He's in big trouble now. That little fucker goes and puts a video of me on the damn internet. I really hope Jim doesn't see this.
[video]http://m.worldstarhiphop.com/video.php?v=wshh9ECB9S10VEfawg63[/video]
Now that I see who your son is, I think ETB will be able to help you out -
Steel Valley FootballJJ is my nickname. Ask Justin.
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EnforcerI call BS on the whole story
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vball10set
:thumbup:Enforcer;1224200 wrote:I call BS on the whole story -
Steel Valley FootballEnforcer;1224200 wrote:I call BS on the whole story
Well I posted the video. See for yourself. -
passwordI think you need to tell him to become a member on the OC, we have lots of questions that only he can answer, unless you have slept with her also. Make sure you tell him he will have submit some pics of the girl to help verify your story.
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Tigerfan00
You clearly said that he posted the video.Steel Valley Football;1224161 wrote:He's in big trouble now. That little fucker goes and puts a video of me on the damn internet. I really hope Jim doesn't see this.
[video]http://m.worldstarhiphop.com/video.php?v=wshh9ECB9S10VEfawg63[/video] -
TedShecklerWorst thread ever.
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gutAs was mentioned, all you can really do is put the fear of God into him about what can happen with flitty young girls, especially ones with strongly disapproving fathers. For starters, he should impose a TRO on himself - no contact - until she's 16. Even then, any relationship that starts before she's 18 exposes him to a whole different order of potential problems/accusations. People have been prosecuted after-the-fact when it's "proven" a relationship started before the age of consent.
And when it comes to allegations of sexual abuse, women are prone to lying for a variety of reasons (it's estimated up to 50% of college rape accusations are lies or mistaken identity), but the younger they are the more likely to lie for vindictive or other reasons.
My personal perspective is I think of this in terms of a 19 yr-old being a fresh/soph in college and dating a fresh/soph in highschool. Maybe a senior in highschool (usually because they were dating before he/she left for college) but otherwise it's kind of really weird. I wouldn't even be too comfortable with my freshman daughter dating a jr/sr 3 years older in college.
Besides the fact unless he's extremely hard-up, I can't imagine a 19 yr old WANTING to date a 15 yr old. Unless she looks like Kate Upton then this board would say it's all good. -
GOONx19No. The rule is divide by two and add 7. If you're 19, they should be 17 (16 if they're really hot). If you're 24, they should be 19. And so on.
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Steel Valley FootballTedSheckler;1224222 wrote:Worst thread ever.
I know. My bald head and goatee look terrible in the video.
Fab1b, help?