Well...slipped one past the goalie...

• Go4alOngbOmB

  

  My wife and I talked about having kids, she went off her pills, said it would be 3 months....that was in December. Now she is 3 weeks late, and took 4 different tests. All came up positive.....I couldn't be happier...but I'm also kinda lost, whats a dude do in this situation.....it is my wife moving to Mexico is NOT an option!
• bases_loaded

  

  Sounds like she pulled the goalie.
• Sonofanump

  Get your sleep now, it will never be the same after.
• THE4RINGZ

  

  Congratulations. As far as what to.do, this is one of those things in life you have to figure out as you go along. Good luck.
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  Go4alOngbOmB;1137282 wrote:My wife and I talked about having kids, she went off her pills, said it would be 3 months....that was in December. Now she is 3 weeks late, and took 4 different tests. All came up positive.....I couldn't be happier...but I'm also kinda lost, whats a dude do in this situation.....it is my wife moving to Mexico is NOT an option!

  Harden the fuck up!
  
  Congrats though.
• dwccrew

  

  At least you know your boys can march.
• WebFire

  Having kids isn't something you can prepare for. Just enjoy the ride and it will all work out.
• iluvz

  Congrats! Just enjoy it. A lot of people are so concerned about doing everything picture perfect and make it 100x harder than it actually is and miss all the great parts!
• gorocks99

  

  
• Belly35

  

  There are instruction book, some direction on how to and training classes... only suggested guideline however. You can read, study, go to classes the bottom line is simple you will feel like a failure sometimes, be a hero other times, do something right, other things wrong, have disappointment and joy, be proud and get disappointed. This creation will divide you and your wife at times but can also bring you both closer if you work at being the best parents. Remember from this point forward it is no longer about you, you are secondary to everything else. </SPAN>
  
  Remember this is a gift from God to you and your wife, this is one aspect your legacy design and develop it with care. Everything you do will be duplicated is some form by this baby.
  
  This is not easy but very rewarding in the long run...
  
  Good luck </SPAN>
• McFly1955

  

  Awesome, congrats.
  
  We have a 19 month old daughter and another due in August -- it has been the best 19 months of my life.
  
  As far as free time/sleep --- yes, sleeping in is basically 7:30-8:00am now (rarely) and if I want to catch a movie or play video games or something, it happens basically between 10 - midnight, but it's totally worth it.
  
  Also, everyone says "it goes so fast", and you're like, "whatevs". But, when you have a kid you realize time really does fast forward it seems.
• sleeper

  

  Make it get good grades and teach it as much as you can about personal finance. We don't need another bleeding heart liberal in this country.
• Tigerfan00

  

  sleeper;1137538 wrote:Make it get good grades and teach it as much as you can about personal finance. We don't need another bleeding heart liberal in this country.

  Im sure he will take your advice with a grain of salt, just like everyone else on this website. You dick.
• ts1227

  

  sleeper;1137538 wrote:Make it get good grades and teach it as much as you can about personal finance. We don't need another bleeding heart liberal in this country.

  
  It's paramount that the rest of his free time is spent locked in the house, which will then lead him to become an elite message board troll to pass the pathetic time.
• sleeper

  

  I will ignore the poorly disguised personal attacks on my character.
  
  Enjoy!
• ts1227

  

  sleeper;1137553 wrote:I will ignore the poorly disguised personal attacks on my character.
  
  Enjoy!

  
  What was being disguised?
• sleeper

  

  ts1227;1137642 wrote:What was being disguised?

  Personal attacks are against the rules of this forum. They have to be disguised, otherwise the offender would be banned.
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  sleeper;1137659 wrote:Personal attacks are against the rules of this forum. They have to be disguised, otherwise the offender would be banned.

  You know what happens when you assume right?
• Tigerfan00

  

  sleeper;1137553 wrote:I will ignore the poorly disguised personal attacks on my character.
  
  Enjoy!

  You are a troll,POS,asshat and last but not least, an JJ ass sniffer. you have no character for people to attack. you get attacked for exactly what you are.
• Tigerfan00

  

  sleeper;1137659 wrote:Personal attacks are against the rules of this forum. They have to be disguised, otherwise the offender would be banned.

  If thats true, how in the hell are you still here?
• sleeper

  

  Raw Dawgin' it;1137670 wrote:You know what happens when you assume right?

  When I assume, I win.
  
  #sleeperwins
• sleeper

  

  Tigerfan00;1137672 wrote:You are a troll,POS,asshat and last but not least, an JJ ass sniffer. you have no character for people to attack. you get attacked for exactly what you are.

  Anything else you'd like to get off your chest?
• sleeper

  

  Tigerfan00;1137673 wrote:If thats true, how in the hell are you still here?

  I think I do a pretty good job of following the rules. Most of my personal attacks are placed in the basement, which is where they are allowed.
• Raw Dawgin' it

  

  sleeper;1137678 wrote:When I assume, I win.
  
  #sleeperwins

  smh...I think george bush had the same approach.
• Go4alOngbOmB

  

  Thank you everyone for the congrats and advice. It was still sinking in at the time of the post. I may hibernate for the next 8 months like a bear so I can at least FEEL I have had some sleep this year.
  
  ALSO:
  

  ts1227;1137546 wrote:It's paramount that the rest of his free time is spent locked in the house, which will then lead him to become an elite message board troll to pass the pathetic time.

  I'll be sure to have him leg pressing 1000 pounds by his 1st birthday....then he will be the ultimate message board troll!