Bachelor(ette) Parties

• rrfan

  

  FatHobbit;1779918 wrote:Did the father in law get a bj in front of everyone? I don't know about everyone else but I try to go out of my way not to piss off my mother in law. I can't imagine that her husband getting a bj at the Bachelor party would be a good start to the relationship

  This unless he was divorced. If he was not then he probably is now.
• QuakerOats

  Fab4Runner;1779839 wrote: I won't judge.

  
  
  Well, you better start.
• Fab4Runner

  

  QuakerOats;1779925 wrote:Well, you better start.

  How consenting adults conduct their relationship is of no concern to me.
• 4cards

  

  FatHobbit;1779918 wrote:Did the father in law get a bj in front of everyone? I don't know about everyone else but I try to go out of my way not to piss off my mother in law. I can't imagine that her husband getting a bj at the Bachelor party would be a good start to the relationship

  ...the old boy was getting ready to unzip his fly when we told him it was a set up and that he wouldn't be getting any head, and since he wasn't married at the time, there was no mother in law to get pissed off at hm.....which would explain why he bought a couple of tickets to begin with...LOL
• Dr Winston O'Boogie

  

  I think of strip clubs this way - imagine if someone opened a beer, let you look at it, maybe touch it, smell it, but when you wanted to drink it said "no, that is not allowed". Now imagine paying for this over and over during the course of a three-four hour night. That is a strip club to me. Never cared for them.
  
  I was never attempted to be bad at my bachelor party. In truth, this was because I got so hammered, I passed out.
  
  "One last fling" is cheating in my book. But that's my book.
• sleeper

  

  Strip clubs are absolutely pointless and nasty.
  
  Two reasons:
  #1) If you are a decent looking guy with decent social skills and a decent wallet you can see naked women and actually have sex with them any time you want.
  #2) If you are none of the above, the internet has plenty of videos/pictures of naked women.
• sleeper

  

  Also "no" on the cheating at bachelor parties. What constitutes cheating depends on what the couple talks about PRIOR to the event happening. I know some people that allowed kissing/touching boobs but no sexual contact and that was completely fine.
• rrfan

  

  Fab4Runner;1779932 wrote:How consenting adults conduct their relationship is of no concern to me.

  Fab4 would he be able to get a BJ after you are married? You are right if the agreement is there nothing wrong. I know I would not want that in my relationship but to each there own.
• Heretic

  

  It'll all be cool, as long as things don't go as far as they did in that "Very Bad Things" film.
  
  Bangin' strippers = A-OK!
  
  Having to dispose of stripper corpses = Sort of shaky.
• Sonofanump

  Fab4Runner;1779830 wrote: but if my fiancé got a blow j I don't really think I'd care.

  So you are starting your marriage like this?
• Fab4Runner

  

  Sonofanump;1779971 wrote:So you are starting your marriage like this?

  No, but it's our decision regardless.
• Fab4Runner

  

  rrfan;1779965 wrote:Fab4 would he be able to get a BJ after you are married? You are right if the agreement is there nothing wrong. I know I would not want that in my relationship but to each there own.

  I don't think so. I am not actually in favor of open relationships. I know a couple who has an open marriage and it works great for them, but I probably couldn't do it.
  
  I just found the party topic interesting after hearing different people talk about it on the radio.
• Sonofanump

  Fab4Runner;1779972 wrote:No, but it's our decision regardless.

  Sure, but my wife and I are honest with each other, trust each other, and don't have an "open/swinger" relationship. So, I wouldn't understand.
• hasbeen

  

  arnie palmer;1779902 wrote:
  
  One of the only single guys brought a drunk girl back from the bar, had sex with her, and then kicked her out. She tried to get the hotel sercurity to let her back into our room. When they came to the door we told them we never saw her before and they then kicked her out of the hotel.

  This is awesome.
• BR1986FB

  Heretic;1779968 wrote:
  Having to dispose of stripper corpses = Sort of shaky.

  Don't judge me !
• HitsRus

  

  What constitutes cheating depends on what the couple talks about PRIOR to the event happening

  anything that has prior to approval between consenting adults would not be cheating, but without such... it is. Even with approval, there is the situation where someone is 'cool' with it....until it actually happens...then you have to deal with the damage.
  

  . I know some people that allowed kissing/touching boobs but no sexual contact and that was completely fine.

  ....starting to sound like Bill and Monica.
• Commander of Awesome

  

  I'd say have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. If you don't want to have a joint one, have to ask yourself if you truly loe the person. Who else would you want to spend the time with other than the person you love?
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  /sarcasm
• DeyDurkie5

  

  You are asking the wrong site. To each their own. If you guys lay down guidelines and both are cool with it, then I don't see an issue.
  
  You really want guys like Quaker, belly and hits answering this question?
• Commander of Awesome

  

  DeyDurkie5;1779991 wrote:You are asking the wrong site. To each their own. If you guys lay down guidelines and both are cool with it, then I don't see an issue.
  
  You really want guys like Quaker, belly and hits answering this question?

  She's not asking for your opinion (or theirs) on her matter (she already made her mind and provided her thoughts), she's inviting discussion on the topic. Nice comprehension there bud!
• rrfan

  

  Fab4Runner;1779974 wrote:I don't think so. I am not actually in favor of open relationships. I know a couple who has an open marriage and it works great for them, but I probably couldn't do it.
  
  I just found the party topic interesting after hearing different people talk about it on the radio.

  I think you would be okay with it prior to wedding until you found out that it happened. Then your mind would always wonder and think about it happening again.
• HitsRus

  

  rrfan;1779994 wrote:I think you would be okay with it prior to wedding until you found out that it happened. Then your mind would always wonder and think about it happening again.

  That's what I was saying a few posts back... Yeah, you might have approval and everything is okay... Right up until the time that it's NOT okay.
  Derkie wants to take a slap at us older guys, probably because he thinks we might be out of touch. But really, the "sexual revolution" began when we were in our prime, and we've been around a long time and seen a lot of shit.
  I'll tell you this... While societal norms and opinion of what is morally acceptable changes,.... human emotions, feelings, motivations, and behavior are pretty constant.
• ZWICK 4 PREZ

  

  HitsRus;1780008 wrote: Derkie wants to take a slap at us older guys, probably because he thinks we might be out of touch. But really, the "sexual revolution" began when we were in our prime

  yeah. Thanks for AIDS by the way.
• BR1986FB

  ZWICK 4 PREZ;1780011 wrote:yeah. Thanks for AIDS by the way.

  Umm, yeah....not exactly.
• DeyDurkie5

  

  Commander of Awesome;1779993 wrote:She's not asking for your opinion (or theirs) on her matter (she already made her mind and provided her thoughts), she's inviting discussion on the topic. Nice comprehension there bud!

  I guess I could've made a swing and a miss joke, but your sarcasm post did it.
  
  She is inviting discussion but doesn't want their opinion. Sounds about right for you COA.