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I just got engaged

  • GoChiefs
    Con_Alma;1346220 wrote:I doubt that very few people are like me but then again I don't evaluate them to see if they are or not because it really doesn't matter and there's no reason for me to care if they are or not. Why do you ask?

    Con_Alma'd
  • Raw Dawgin' it
    ernest_t_bass;1346222 wrote:You quoted a post that was in reference to ME.
    Stop being so selfish, not everything is about you.
  • ernest_t_bass
    Raw Dawgin' it;1346225 wrote:Stop being so selfish, not everything is about you.
    lol
  • Con_Alma
    ernest_t_bass;1346222 wrote:You quoted a post that was in reference to ME.
    ...as an effort to continue the thought of choosing the right woman can be wonderful. Lol. The focus was on that person's point about choosing a mate. It was not about the reference to you . Of course if you want my post to be about you so we can continue this little go around... I'll oblige if it makes you happy.:)
  • SportsAndLady
    ernest_t_bass;1346188 wrote:Perhaps you can't comprehend. I love my wife, and I love my kids. I don't regret anything. However, I would more than likely choose NOT to do it again, simply because I've learned more about myself, not b/c of my wife. I'm not the type of person who likes to answer to someone.

    Oh, and I really like money. lol


    Again, you just married the wrong woman. It has nothing to do with whether or not you'd do it again, moreso that if you married the right person, you wouldn't be feeling this way.

    "I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.
    "I like money" work harder
  • GoChiefs
    SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:"I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.

    Eh. I'm sure everyone thats been married has had to answer to his/her spouse at one point in the marriage.
  • FatHobbit
    I miss being able to do whatever the hell I wanted without having to explain it to someone. Not all the time, but definitely some of the time.
  • ernest_t_bass
    SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:
    "I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.
    If you are married, whether you "like" it or not, you will always have someone to answer to. Always. Having someone to answer to has nothing to do with liking/loving/hating marriage.
    SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:
    "I like money" work harder
    LOL. Educator.
  • Raw Dawgin' it
    Sounds like ETB wants to see other women.
  • SportsAndLady
    Sounds like ETB just doesn't want someone to answer to..is that even possible in life? Unless your Jerry Jones, Donald trump or some other billionaire entrepreneurial tycoon.
  • ernest_t_bass
    Raw Dawgin' it;1346258 wrote:Sounds like ETB wants to see other women.

    LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.
    SportsAndLady;1346261 wrote:Sounds like ETB just doesn't want someone to answer to..is that even possible in life? Unless your Jerry Jones, Donald trump or some other billionaire entrepreneurial tycoon.
    When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
  • Raw Dawgin' it
    ernest_t_bass;1346267 wrote:LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.



    When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
    this is definitely true.
  • GoChiefs
    ernest_t_bass;1346256 wrote:If you are married, whether you "like" it or not, you will always have someone to answer to. Always.
    I disagree with that as well. I don't "always" answer to my wife. I keep my wife in the know and informed on everything, but thats as far as it goes unless its something big.
  • ernest_t_bass
    GoChiefs;1346270 wrote:I disagree with that as well. I don't "always" answer to my wife. I keep my wife in the know and informed on everything, but thats as far as it goes unless its something big.
    Disagree with what I said? Every action you make, you will always be accountable to your wife. Perhaps that says it better than "answering."
  • GoChiefs
    ernest_t_bass;1346271 wrote:Disagree with what I said? Every action you make, you will always be accountable to your wife. Perhaps that says it better than "answering."

    My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
  • like_that
    GoChiefs;1346273 wrote:My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
    Why not?
  • GoChiefs
    Because she doesn't care to know everything. If I'm walking out the door, all I have to say is I'll be back and I don't get bombarded with a million where are you going questions. If she needs me, I have a cell phone.
  • thavoice
    ernest_t_bass;1346267 wrote:LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.



    When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
    That is not entirely true. Yes, many decisions are WE based, but there are many, many, many MORE HER based than you based.
  • ernest_t_bass
    GoChiefs;1346273 wrote:My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
    Nor does she know every action that I make, but I'm still accountable to her for every action I make.
  • ernest_t_bass
    thavoice;1346303 wrote:That is not entirely true. Yes, many decisions are WE based, but there are many, many, many MORE HER based than you based.
    Yes, but it's not a secret that you're married to a succubus.