Need Advice...

• derek bomar

  

  So, about 20 minutes ago my wife called me (she is in Chicago for the Notre Dame/Miami game ... she's a Domer) to tell me that she's only up there with her friend. She should have been there with her friend plus her husband.
  
  Why is her husband not there? Oh. It's because he's been having a multi-year relationship with another lady that came out a day before the trip... did I mention that this d-bag just married our friend in August? We paid for their honeymoon. "awesome"
  
  I want to rip this guys face off. He dicked over a mutual friend of ours (wifes bff as well as a really good friend of mine), and literally I am blindsided. Like, I am not one to be blindsided by things like this, but I did not see this coming. I've golfed with him, and when guys golf they talk. And he's brought up things like "ya know I could have this, but I love (name redacted)... but damn this girls hot" and ya know you just laugh. Cuz ya know, every guy thinks he could have this and that. I never really thought he was serious.
  
  I have been told not to tell anyone (as my wife is the only one who knows). I want to beat this guys ass.
  
  Someone talk me down. (if you couldn't tell, she's a good friend of mine as well as my wife's)
• karen lotz

  

  Does this mean there is an extra ticket for the game??
• BoatShoes

  He should post this song on her facebook wall imho.
  
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• derek bomar

  

  karen lotz;1288322 wrote:Does this mean there is an extra ticket for the game??

  I would presume, yes.
  
  This guy is also in a few fantasy/pick-em leagues I run... do I just fuck his teams up or what? Bah. I have been told I can't tell anyone (OC doesnt count, none of you guys are real people).... and all I wanna do is tell everyone. my wife got to tell someone... fuck this guy.
• said_aouita

  

  Is your wife's friend hot?
• derek bomar

  

  said_aouita;1288332 wrote:Is your wife's friend hot?

  actually, yes.
• TedSheckler

  

  *yawn*
• Tiernan

  Your wife and her BFF got drunk as hell last night and banged their way up and down Division St.
• KR1245

  

  Why in the hell would anyone want to deal with two relationships? Dealing with one woman is bad enough
  
  I have a college buddy that was doing the same thing, he had 3 different women in 3 different states. I dont understand how or why you would do that to yourself. He would have to sneak out of the house to make his nightly calls to the other women...sounds exhausitng
• like_that

  

  I would give my advice, but unfortunately the new sexual content rule does not allow it.
• Automatik

  

  Kick his ass Seabass.
• Rotinaj

  

  Sounds like a curb stomping is in order.
• derek bomar

  

  Rotinaj;1288366 wrote:Sounds like a curb stomping is in order.

  this man gets it
• derek bomar

  

  Tiernan;1288349 wrote:Your wife and her BFF got drunk as hell last night and banged their way up and down Division St.

  
  If the BFF wanted to, by all means. Srsly doubt my wife would, but nothing surprises me now a days.
• Fab1b

  

  When they come home be her support...your wife will see how good a guy you are leading to some 1+2=3
• derek bomar

  

  Fab1b;1288381 wrote:When they come home be her support...your wife will see how good a guy you are leading to some 1+2=3

  Yes. Yes Yes Yes.
• Pick6

  

  So does the wife know or not? And how does your wife know?
• Steel Valley Football

  I think you should take a step back. It has nothing to do with you or your wife and this guy doesn't owe you anything just because your wives are friends. Yes, it stinks for your wife's friend...but you certainly aren't entitled to go beat this guy up. This shit happens all the time. I'd say get over and be there for your wife's friend. And yes by "be there" I mean three way...j/k.
• reclegend22

  

  derek bomar wrote:I have been told not to tell anyone (as my wife is the only one who knows).

  Then it's a good thing you took it straight to the internet. Lol. (Not that anyone here would know who the subjects in question are.)
  
  Dude is a creep, but you are probably getting involved in something you don't want to be involved in if you decide to move ahead with the plan to remove all of his teeth (re: the curb stomp you appear eager to perform on him). The retaliation you and your wife inherit from engaging in a mano-a-mano duel with this guy might not be worth it.
• derek bomar

  

  reclegend22;1288406 wrote:Then it's a good thing you took it straight to the internet. Lol. (Not that anyone here would know who the subjects in question are.)
  
  Dude is a creep, but you are probably getting involved in something you don't want to be involved in if you decide to move ahead with the plan to remove all of his teeth (re: the curb stomp you appear eager to perform on him). The retaliation you and your wife inherit from engaging in a mano-a-mano duel with this guy might not be worth it.

  
  yea - she told me about it last night when I was drunk. Now that I am sober I find myself not wanting to kill him as much...
• derek bomar

  

  Pick6;1288391 wrote:So does the wife know or not? And how does your wife know?

  the BFF found an email from a co-worker, and it was explicit. He admitted to it.
• DeadliestWarrior34

  

  like_that;1288356 wrote:I would give my advice, but unfortunately the new sexual content rule does not allow it.

  PIIHB?
• GoChiefs

  

  I can't believe I'm getting ready to say this, but, I agree with SVF. I'd just stay out of it.
• fan_from_texas

  Stay out of it. Unless you see a way to bring the hot bff in for some ffm.
• Steel Valley Football

  GoChiefs;1288422 wrote:I can't believe I'm getting ready to say this, but, I agree with SVF. I'd just stay out of it.

  
  You know I'm the OC Voice of Reason.