Is there anything worse than a whipped BF?

• redstreak one

  

  My wife wouldnt turn off the tv last night when I told her to and she got lippy! When I tried to grab the remote to turn it off she smacked me with it. I promptly shoved her out of bed onto her butt! You have to put women in their place!
  
  
  
  
  Btw, it did happen that way, but it was all in fun, for me! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
• derek bomar

  

  I've definitely whipped my gf...steal the V-card and that can happen
• darbypitcher22

  

  wow.... from what I'm reading here there are some real pussies who can't stand up for themselves
• CenterBHSFan

  

  Some people need to be ruled, men and women.
  
  Personally, I wouldn't put up with for a minute.
• dwccrew

  

  derek bomar wrote: I've definitely whipped my gf...steal the V-card and that can happen

  And now you have a Stage 5 clinger. Avoid virgins at all costs!
• j_crazy

  

  as a whipped husband i can say this.
  
  There are much worse things than being a whipped BF.
• Devils Advocate

  

  In answer to the original question: Yes. A prick abusive boyfriend is worse by far
• power i

  

  Maybe he offered to go get the milk so quickly to get the hell away from her.
• hasbeen

  

  Referring to my roomie again:
  
  I'm in my room reading FH and I hear them walk in and then the both go into the bathroom and I hear this:
  
  Him: I can't pee with you standing there.
  Her: You do any other time.
  Him: I can't right now.
  Her: God, just pee. I have to do [whatever she was doing because she's a crazy person].
  
  Like really? The bathroom is like a second man cave. Women should not be involved unless it's for a shower which there is little showering going on.
  
  And she has a whiny voice at all times. It's annoying.
• Con_Alma

  The only thing worse than a whipped boyfriend are folks who spend energy on evaluating someone who may or may not be whipped.
• Sage

  

  No, there is no lower life form.
• LeagueMVP

  

  yea two whipped bf together
• CinciX12

  

  pnhasbeen wrote: Referring to my roomie again:
  
  I'm in my room reading FH and I hear them walk in and then the both go into the bathroom and I hear this:
  
  Him: I can't pee with you standing there.
  Her: You do any other time.
  Him: I can't right now.
  Her: God, just pee. I have to do [whatever she was doing because she's a crazy person].
  
  Like really? The bathroom is like a second man cave. Women should not be involved unless it's for a shower which there is little showering going on.
  
  And she has a whiny voice at all times. It's annoying.

  LOL!
• se-alum

  

  Here's a question. What do you draw the line between being whipped and being a good bf/gf?
• CinciX12

  

  se-alum wrote: Here's a question. What do you draw the line between being whipped and being a good bf/gf?

  When you cease to maintain your own separate lives. If you need to be around that person all the time and you find yourself doing things you swore you'd never do.
  
  Now excuse me, I have to go and give my girl a massage. She told me too.
• THE4RINGZ

  

  Maybe your friend is following the example of relationships he saw his parents portray. Maybe he just wants to do everything he can to make her happy even if that involves getting milk from a certain store. And if that makes him happy, then so be it.
  
  However, it doesn't sound all that healthy to me. A relationship should be give and take. You haven't listed any benefits he gets from the realtionship. Are there no benefits for him?
  
  Sounds like they are both young, and in his next relationship he can apply some of the knowledge he learned in this one to be more equal, happy, and healthy.
• Devils Advocate

  

  
• FatHobbit

  

  THE4RINGZ wrote: However, it doesn't sound all that healthy to me. A relationship should be give and take. You haven't listed any benefits he gets from the realtionship. Are there no benefits for him?

  There are three sides to every relationship story. His side, her side and the truth. I bet if you asked them both to describe their relationship they would have totally different descriptions. The truth is probably somewhere in between. And we're only getting a one sided description here. (I don't doubt the OP sees/hears what he's telling us, but there's probably a lot more that goes on in the relationship than he sees.)
• Sage

  

  You can easily tell the men who are whipped by the responses to this thread.
• FatHobbit

  

  Sage wrote: You can easily tell the men who are single by the responses to this thread.

  exactly
• Red_Skin_Pride

  

  se-alum wrote: Here's a question. What do you draw the line between being whipped and being a good bf/gf?

  Being respectful and nice to each other, and thinking about the other person's feelings is one thing; if you've ever seen someone that's truly 'whipped' it is completely different. In the case of the OP's situation, I would have no problem going and getting milk for my gf if she asked me nicely to do so, or if she asked if I would wanna ride with her to go get it etc. That's not a problem, because a question gives YOU the option to say what you WANT to do. The OP's scenario sounds like she's bitched at him so much in the past about not going to get her stuff like that as soon as she says "jump", that he's trained to do it now.
  
  It's one thing to ask your significant other to do a favor for you, or to go get you something, it's quite another to just expect it as soon as you say it (and then get mad if they don't say "how high?" when she says "jump"). My gf knows that I'll generally do most things she asks me to do, if she does so nicely. And I do the same for her. We have a good relationship that way. I wouldn't put up with it for one second if she constantly expected me to do/get everything she needed without asking like I'm her servant; and I don't expect her to do things like that for me. We have that understanding, and she knows where I stand on stuff like that, and I know where she stands so luckily, we don't have to deal with things like this hardly ever. It's all about setting certain boundaries and standard parts of your relationships from the beginning, and reenforcing those when necessary. She's always known since our relationship began that if she asks, I'll likely do it for her. If she's demanding, she can do it her damn self. And I respect her the same way, by asking nicely (not demanding) and not getting mad at each other if the other person says they don't really want to do something.
  
  So that's how I see a good healthy relationship, and being a good bf/gf.
• ohiotiger33

  

  I am sorry, the relationship is not healthy. These are two 20 year olds (two of the most immature 20 year old's you might ever meet), and they have alienated their friends to the point that we all basically can't stand them. I am fairly certain they are living together next year (in college=bad news).
  
  Relationships are about mutual advantage and respecting the other person. It is hard to respect someone that doesn't even stand up for himself.
  
  
  (Redskin basically hit the nail on the head)
• Red_Skin_Pride

  

  ohiotiger33 wrote: I am sorry, the relationship is not healthy. These are two 20 year olds (two of the most immature 20 year old's you might ever meet), and they have alienated their friends to the point that we all basically can't stand them. I am fairly certain they are living together next year (in college=bad news).
  
  Relationships are about mutual advantage and respecting the other person. It is hard to respect someone that doesn't even stand up for himself.
  
  
  (Redskin basically hit the nail on the head)

  Yeah, that situation of living together in college is going to be all bad. he's not going to be allowed to have any friends, male or female, and will only be allowed to do stuff, even around the house/apartment, when she gives him permission lol.
• gerb131

  

  A whipped boyfriend who hasn't even hit it once.
• krazie45

  

  gerb131 wrote: A whipped boyfriend who hasn't even hit it once.

  ding ding ding!