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What would you do if your spouses father was a sex offender?

  • Commander of Awesome
    Fab4Runner;1196536 wrote:You guys are a bunch of assholes.
    Can't argue with this.
  • Steel Valley Football
    If he was also abused and hasn't addressed it then you're likely in for a doomed marriage.
  • hasbeen
    Steel Valley Football;1196564 wrote:If he was also abused and hasn't addressed it then you're likely in for a doomed marriage.
    This is pretty negative. Meanie.

    Just address it as you being concerned. Should be that easy. No anger. Just concern.
  • Steel Valley Football
    pnhasbeen;1196641 wrote:This is pretty negative. Meanie.

    Huh?
  • hasbeen
    Steel Valley Football;1196658 wrote:Huh?
    dooming her marriage is kind of negative man.
  • Steel Valley Football
    pnhasbeen;1196661 wrote:dooming her marriage is kind of negative man.
    What does that have to do with reality?
  • hasbeen
    Steel Valley Football;1196674 wrote:What does that have to do with reality?
    That's just, like, your opinion, man.
  • Steel Valley Football
    pnhasbeen;1196681 wrote:That's just, like, your opinion, man.
    Quit trolling me.
  • Con_Alma
    I don't think she asked what she should do. She will come to that determination eventually. I also didn't read anyone saying it wasn't her right or to inquire or not.

    She asked what we would do if in that situation. I wouldn't bring it up unless I had a need to....but I also wouldn't have internet searched the name either. If I didn't want to visit my Father-in-law I wouldn't. If my wife asked why, I would tell her. Those actions would be both honest to myself and my wife.
  • Steel Valley Football
    ^^^^

    Very good post.
  • mcburg93
    Ytowngirlinfla;1196367 wrote:So I just found this out via google search that he's a registered sex offender in Utah. He never told me and he hasn't seen his father in like 8 or 9 years. He talks to him on occasion. Should I approach the hubs and ask why he never told me or even if he knows?
    So what did you type in to find this info out? insertnameofhubs sex offender? insertnameofhubs likes little girls? insertnameofhubs jail time? If I had a guess this was not an accident. You were curious to what his dad was in jail for and you started looking it up. Maybe you shouldve asked him first before you came here and asked a bunch of egotistical guys.
  • Thinthickbigred
    Fab4Runner;1196536 wrote:You guys are a bunch of ****s.

    Based on the information you have given, you have every right to ask your husband about this. That doesn't mean accuse, start an argument, etc. But if you are planning to go see this man in July, I believe you should have your questions answered beforehand. It's unfortunate that your husband did not tell you any of this, but I am guessing he was probably embarrassed and ashamed...who could blame him? I can understand him wanting to keep this buried, but since you guys are planning a trip he shouldn't be upset that you want to know about the person you are going to see.
    Somebody call the trailor park the trash is loose
  • Ytowngirlinfla
    mcburg93;1196779 wrote:So what did you type in to find this info out? insertnameofhubs sex offender? insertnameofhubs likes little girls? insertnameofhubs jail time? If I had a guess this was not an accident. You were curious to what his dad was in jail for and you started looking it up. Maybe you shouldve asked him first before you came here and asked a bunch of egotistical guys.
    . I wasn't looking for information on his father. I was looking at intellus to see if they have both our information correct as we are looking to buy a house. His dad was linked to him so I.clicked just to see and that's when all the information came up. Anyways he has no idea what his dad was in prison for and I'm not going to.tell.him. if.anything he needs to ask his father Wtf. I definitely will not visit him.
  • Raw Dawgin' it
    Thinthickbigred;1196842 wrote:Somebody call the trailor park the trash is loose
    lol here comes a wildcats infraction.
  • Fab4Runner
    Thinthickbigred;1196842 wrote:Somebody call the trailor park the trash is loose
    Lol uhh what?
  • queencitybuckeye
    Thinthickbigred;1196842 wrote:Somebody call the trailor park the trash is loose
    Ironic post is ironic.
  • QuakerOats
    Ytowngirlinfla;1196376 wrote:I'm not trying to pick a fight at all. I'm not mad. I'm just wondering why anyone would even talk to a father who did this. Just curious because we may go to Utah to see him in July.
    When you are there shoot the guy and put him out of commission for good --- public service; thanks.
  • FatHobbit
    queencitybuckeye;1196867 wrote:Ironic post is ironic.
    Isn't it?
  • ohiobucks1
    Has he responded yet?
  • DeyDurkie5
    Fab4Runner;1196536 wrote:You guys are a bunch of assholes.

    Based on the information you have given, you have every right to ask your husband about this. That doesn't mean accuse, start an argument, etc. But if you are planning to go see this man in July, I believe you should have your questions answered beforehand. It's unfortunate that your husband did not tell you any of this, but I am guessing he was probably embarrassed and ashamed...who could blame him? I can understand him wanting to keep this buried, but since you guys are planning a trip he shouldn't be upset that you want to know about the person you are going to see.
    Sorry that we normal people don't have these issues. If any girl I dated had a father that fucked little boys, I would tell that girl to fuck off and would not want that in my gene pool.
  • Ytowngirlinfla
    ohiobucks1;1196941 wrote:Has he responded yet?
    Yeah he had no idea what his father was in prison for. I guess he googled it today and found out he's a registered sex offender. Though he said he didn't want to know why or what happened so I'm assuming he doesn't know it was with a kid 14 or younger. He said he also doesn't have any need to see his father and only wanted to go visit to just see him for a day or two since it's been almost 10 years he said. I feel bad because that's still his father and it's got to be hard to think that anyone can do that to someone.
  • ohiobucks1
    Another story solved by help from OC


    Case closed.
  • DeyDurkie5
    Ytowngirlinfla;1197417 wrote:Yeah he had no idea what his father was in prison for. I guess he googled it today and found out he's a registered sex offender. Though he said he didn't want to know why or what happened so I'm assuming he doesn't know it was with a kid 14 or younger. He said he also doesn't have any need to see his father and only wanted to go visit to just see him for a day or two since it's been almost 10 years he said. I feel bad because that's still his father and it's got to be hard to think that anyone can do that to someone.
    You are a dating a guy, who's dad fucked little boys/girls. Nice choice.
  • Pick6
    DeyDurkie5;1197522 wrote:You are a dating a guy, who's dad fucked little boys/girls. Nice choice.
    married.
  • DeyDurkie5
    Pick6;1197577 wrote:married.
    Point still stands