Would you be cool if your significant other did a background check

• gerb131

  

  Or blood test on you?
• vball10set

  yup
• Con_Alma

  Sure. Investigate away.
• Pick6

  

  yea..nothing to hide.
• THE4RINGZ

  

  I would be ok with any kind of test she would run.
• Rotinaj

  

  As long as i gave her Aids before the test im fine with it.
• sleeper

  

  No, I don't date dumb ass hoes, I just bang them.
• Curly J

  

  I wouldn't mind as long as she lets me PIIHB afterward.
• sherm03

  

  I wouldn't be worried about anything showing up. But I don't know if I would be cool being in a relationship with someone who had that big of trust issues that they would have to run a background check on me.
• 1_beast

  

  No! That would mean she has left the kitchen ans stopped making sammich's.
• ernest_t_bass

  

  Without telling me? Not cool.
• queencitybuckeye

  She either has reason not to trust me, or she doesn't trust me for no reason. Either is a recipe for a failed relationship.
• Steel Valley Football

  My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.
• fan_from_texas

  I wouldn't be cool with it. It seems like that's a pretty big breach of trust issue, isn't it? If she wants to know something, ask. If you can't trust someone, don't be with them.
• Skyhook79

  

  Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.

  Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face.
  
  /steelvalleyfootball'd
• Pick6

  

  I change my answer because I didnt really read the question right. I would be fine with somebody doing a background check one me BEFORE we had a relationship. I don't really see the point of a significant other doing a background check, because you would figure they know a lot about you since you have a relationship together.
  
  Now say I was asked to give a blood test for something, I'd probably be pretty fucking irate. Lack of trust.
• FatHobbit

  

  What's the blood test for?
• THE4RINGZ

  

  FatHobbit;1187059 wrote:What's the blood test for?

  
  Just shut up and let them draw the blood there cowboy.
• Steel Valley Football

  Skyhook79;1187016 wrote:Maybe her Uncles were too busy banging your mom to ask you to your face./steelvalleyfootball'd

  That's impossible. My wife's uncles are all gay. Like your dad.
• Tigerfan00

  

  thavoice shouldve had one done on his wife.
• friendfromlowry

  Steel Valley Football;1186375 wrote:My wife's family did on me when we first started dating, without either of our knowledge. Her uncles, not parents. They are a family of cops and did it without telling anyone, not her parents I don't think. I have nothing to hide, but was pissed about it nonetheless. Be a man and ask me to my face about my legal past.

  Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.
• Steel Valley Football

  friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.

  I don't lie.
  
  It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
• Steel Valley Football

  friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.

  I don't lie.
  
  It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
• Steel Valley Football

  friendfromlowry;1187286 wrote:Because you might lie about it? Hence getting the background check.

  I don't lie.
  
  It's still sneaky, regardless. And, now, 12 years later, now that they know me and how I'm raising my family, and knowing I found out about it; they feel like idiots for doing it. So I've been told.
• thavoice

  WOuld I have anything to hide on either?
  
  No.
  
  But if she is doing that....run. Run like the wind because she will only cause you trouble day after day after day.