Teacher/Student sex. It it now a woman's thing?

• thavoice

  Used to only hear of males banging female students.
  
  Now there seems to be alot of female teachers, many who are good enough looking to get many guys themselves, who are the perpetrators.
  
  Male on student sex not getting as much pub now as the attractive women teachers banging students?
• mallymal614

  http://www.zimbio.com/The+50+Most+Infamous+Female+Teacher+Sex+Scandals
  
  Women have been doing this for a while.
  
  
  

  Debra Lafave was a reading teacher at Angelo L. Greco Middle School in Temple Terrace, FL. In June of 2004, she was arrested on charges of having sexual intercourse with a 14-year-old boy. Police records report that Lafave had performed oral sex on the boy on June 3rd, and had sexual intercourse with the him in a portable classroom at her school nine days later.

  
  

  Pamela Rogers Turner was a 27-year-old teacher and coach at Centertown Elementary School in McMinnville, TN. She was arrested in February, 2005 on charges of statutory rape, after allegations surfaced of an ongoing sexual relationship between herself and a 13-year-old student.

  
  

  Nicole Long was a 29-year-old English teacher at Ayersville High School in Defiance, OH. She was arrested on charges of sexual battery of a 17-year-old male former student in January, 2006. According to police documents, Long and the student had sexual intercourse in Long's home one afternoon in June of 2005.

  
  

  Autumn Leathers was a 24-year-old English teacher at Mountain Ridge High School in Frostburg, MD. She was arrested in August of 2008 on charges of having a sexual relationship with a 16-year-old male student. The relationship was discovered when one of Leathers' neighbors noticed the boy repeatedly leaving Leathers' house late at night.

• mallymal614

  
  

  Carmina Lopez was a 32-year-old fifth-grade teacher at Sunnyslope Elementary School in Palm City, California. In January of 2009, she was arrested on charges of carrying on a four-year affair with a former student, which began when he was 11 and she was 28. The alleged affair first came to light when the boy received psychological counseling through Child Protective Services. While Lopez claims the boy is mentally disturbed, local police have said the evidence goes far beyond "he said, she said," and that multiple witnesses will back up the boy's claim. Lopez appeared in a pre-trial hearing in March of 2009, during which the boy testified that Lopez would buy gifts for him, but would make him have sexual intercourse with her before he could receive the gifts.

  
  

  Summary: Cameo Patch was a 29-year-old substitute teacher at Tooele High School. She was arrested in January of 2006 after an informant told police that Patch had gone on a date with a 17-year-old student at the high school, and performed oral sex on the boy, though no sexual intercourse had occurred.

  
  

  Alison Peck was a 23-year-old music teacher at Greenfield High School in Greenfield, MO. She was charged on May 15, 2009 with two counts of statutory rape after, according to court documents, she admitted to having sex with a 13-year-old male student.

  
  

  Cara Dickey, a 29-year-old teacher at South Buffalo Charter School, was fired from her position at the school after school administrators discovered a cell phone containing romantic texts between Dickey and a 14-year-old male student in June of 2008. She and the boy disappeared later that day. Dickey was discovered the next morning, sleeping in her car, while the boy was found in a nearby mall. She had apparently supplied the boy with rum, Tylenol, and NyQuil as part of a suicide pact. Dickey was charged with unlawful imprisonment, promoting a suicide attempt and and endangering the welfare of a child. In August of 2008, she was also charged with rape, after police say she met with the boy sometime after the first incident and had sex with him at least twice.

• mallymal614

  thavoice;772714 wrote:Used to only hear of males banging female students.
  
  Now there seems to be alot of female teachers, many who are good enough looking to get many guys themselves, who are the perpetrators.
  
  Male on student sex not getting as much pub now as the attractive women teachers banging students?

  
  To answer your question though, I think men have more to lose. We still live in a double standard society. If a man gets caught, he gets jail time, ridicule, and some kind of Scarlett letter of shame on him. Women on the other hand might just get probation, diagnose with a 'mental' problem, and more forgiving for their acts.
• bigkahuna

  Nice..
• thavoice

  mallymal614;772755 wrote:To answer your question though, I think men have more to lose. We still live in a double standard society. If a man gets caught, he gets jail time, ridicule, and some kind of Scarlett letter of shame on him. Women on the other hand might just get probation, diagnose with a 'mental' problem, and more forgiving for their acts.

  
  
  
  Very true. Used to never hear of women teachers boinking students, although I imagine it happened. It was always some dude. Now ya never hear the dudes doing it
• Steel Valley Football

  mallymal614;772755 wrote:To answer your question though, I think men have more to lose. We still live in a double standard society. If a man gets caught, he gets jail time, ridicule, and some kind of Scarlett letter of shame on him. Women on the other hand might just get probation, diagnose with a 'mental' problem, and more forgiving for their acts.

  
  
  You say "some kind of scarlet letter of shame" as if it were some ridiculous label.
• georgemc80

  To ask a student to have an adult NSA relationship, and not develop feelings, is an impossible task. Either male teachers are not doing it, or after years of trying, many have figured out how to do it and not get caught.
• dazedconfused

  

  the initial reaction of a man doing it is basically to have him executed whereas the initial reaction to a woman doing it is something along the lines of "nice" or "good for that kid" lol. both genders have everything to lose professionally and likely face jail time, it's just the public outcry is way worse for men than it is for women
• krambman

  

  In my lifetime I've heard way more of these things going on with female teachers than with male teacher. Probably to the tune of 10 to 1 in fact. And honestly it makes sense. I think that if a teacher decides to have an affair with a student, it is easier for a female teacher to get a male student in bed than it is for a male teacher to get a female student in bed. I also think that with Facebook and texting it becomes harder for people to hide these kinds of things. Guys will brag to their friends, and while that may have just spread as a rumor in the school over a few days, now it will spread within a few hours, spread beyond the school, and there will be evidence of what was going on.
  

  georgemc80;772966 wrote:To ask a student to have an adult NSA relationship, and not develop feelings, is an impossible task. Either male teachers are not doing it, or after years of trying, many have figured out how to do it and not get caught.

  
  To ask anyone to have an NSA relationship and not develop feelings is an impossible task. If you have an intimate relationship with someone for any period of time, feelings will develop, regardless of age. It just happens quicker when you're younger.
• mallymal614

  krambman;773007 wrote: I also think that with Facebook and texting it becomes harder for people to hide these kinds of things..

  
  Exactly! I can't figure out why people don't know this. Everything you send in a text, e-mail, or post on facebook, is there to stay. Even if the stuff is deleted, it can be retrieved.
• Little Danny

  

  Whe I was in high school (1988-1991), I knew of several female teachers who had sex with students. I did not know of any instance of male teachers who doinked a student. If you look at the sheer ratio of female teachers to male teachers, it makes total sense (it was even greater ratio then than it is now).
  
  As someone else noted, in this day and age of social media, it is hard to hide. What's more, I have to wonder if parents today are a lot more protective than parents of yesteryear. My own mother as well as mothers of my friends would have slapped us upside the head for being so stupid to sleep with a teacher. I don't think my mother and some of the others I knew would have sought to have the teacher jailed.
• Cat Food Flambe'

  

  On the other hand, it seems to me that women actually get hornier in their thirties and forties.
• sonofsam

  

  Seriously... Most of these teachers do not deserve this kind of punishment. If the 13-17 year old male student could really say what is on their mind and about how they heard about so-and-so teacher getting arrested for sex with students, but what they really do is go home and jerk-off imagining and hoping that their semi-hot teacher will sit on their face. While it is wrong, the male instinct is to beat that shit six ways from Sunday and brag about it to hell and back.
• Thread Bomber

  

  Cat Food Flambe';773388 wrote:On the other hand, it seems to me that women actually get hornier in their thirties and forties.

  This....
  
  If I had hooked up with a thirty year old when I was 18, You could have heated half a mid size Ohio city with the resulting friction.
• redstreak one

  

  You guys havent been inside a high school lately have you? If you had you would notice that the teenage girls are just as aggressive now as the boys are, probably more so in my opinion! The young girls have no problems with being very social and the boys of course have always been this way. The difference is, 10 or 20 years ago most of the girls said no. Nowadays, that just isnt happening. I chaperoned our high school prom the last 2 years and it reminds me of the bonobo monkey cage, kids just bouncing around grinding on as many people as possible! lol As for the double standard, of course it is still there.
• jpake1

  

  I had one of my teachers 2 days after walking. I wasnt her first victim.