Question

• bigdaddy2003

  

  I just found out that my ex girlfriend whom I was with for 4 years is pregnant. We haven't been together for 2 years but obviously she is still in my memory. For some reason I can't get it out of my head that she is pregnant. I guess because we were once at that level but it never happened. Is it weird that I keep thinking about it?
• gorocks99

  

  Got a fetish?
• bigdaddy2003

  

  gorocks99 wrote: Got a fetish?

  lol nah although I did find a pregnant stripper very attractive once.
• capninsano

  Pics or GTFO!
• wes_mantooth

  

  Easiest way to get that out of your system is simple....
  
  Do her best friend.
• darbypitcher22

  

  I don't know what to tell ya man. go get some strippers and some booze. Try to forget her.
• Nate

  I concur with Mantooth.
• Little Danny

  

  Is Tiger the daddy?
• bigdaddy2003

  

  lol nah she isn't anywhere near the same league as the broads he is banging.
• derek bomar

  

  i feel for you man...best way to get over it is to get on to find someone else...shit happens, move on.
• se-alum

  

  I can see where it could bother you a bit.
• bigdaddy2003

  

  Yeah, I'm not stuck on her like I'm stalking her or sitting around moping about her. It's just hit me funny that she is pregnant for some reason.
• Little Danny

  

  BigDaddy,
  
  You are not weird for thinking about it. The fact that some other guy has impregnated her triggered your mind to realize it won't happen for the two of you. I know you probably delt with that before, but this really cements things in your mind. In addition, I think it is a primal urge to be upset when another man plants his seed in a woman we thought we had a future with. Whether we are over her or not. In time you will be over it, but it will probably be something that will knaw on you for awhile.
• krambman

  

  Little Danny wrote: BigDaddy,
  
  You are not weird for thinking about it. The fact that some other guy has impregnated her triggered your mind to realize it won't happen for the two of you. I know you probably delt with that before, but this really cements things in your mind. In addition, I think it is a primal urge to be upset when another man plants his seed in a woman we thought we had a future with. Whether we are over her or not. In time you will be over it, but it will probably be something that will knaw on you for awhile.

  This. It brings final closure. Even though you may have thought you were over her the ideas you used to have about being with her long term and having kids with her and going to come back because you now must face the ultimate reality that those former dreams are gone forever.
• j_crazy

  

  as long as it's not yours you're golden.
  
  
• Cleveland Buck

  

  j_crazy wrote: as long as it's not yours you're golden.

  This.