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Belly need help in Barnsville or Byerville

  • Fred Flintstone
    Belly35 wrote:
    Fred Flintstone wrote: Belly I know that you said that you were a little older than most of us on here. You might be able to find some more info on your biological father depending on when he was born. If he was alive in 1940 you can check the 1940 US Census which was just released earlier this month.
    I know his name, where he worked at the time and his last know living area. (barnsville or byesville)

    I'm 61years old and from what I have been able to figure out he was around 19-20 in 1949......
    Where do I get a report from the US Cenus?
    Can I go on line and get this?
    You can find the census info online. I know the 1930 census is there for sure because I have used it for some family genealogy stuff. You may be able to find out some of his relatives so not to hurt some of his family or drawl in people that are not relatives but only share the last name.

    You can check out
    http://pilot.familysearch.org/recordsearch/start.html#start

    and

    http://www.footnote.com/
    You must register for this one but it is free for the census info.
  • Belly35
    Fred Flintstone wrote:
    Belly35 wrote:
    Fred Flintstone wrote: Belly I know that you said that you were a little older than most of us on here. You might be able to find some more info on your biological father depending on when he was born. If he was alive in 1940 you can check the 1940 US Census which was just released earlier this month.
    I know his name, where he worked at the time and his last know living area. (barnsville or byesville)

    I'm 61years old and from what I have been able to figure out he was around 19-20 in 1949......
    Where do I get a report from the US Cenus?
    Can I go on line and get this?
    You can find the census info online. I know the 1930 census is there for sure because I have used it for some family genealogy stuff. You may be able to find out some of his relatives so not to hurt some of his family or drawl in people that are not relatives but only share the last name.

    You can check out
    http://pilot.familysearch.org/recordsearch/start.html#start

    and

    http://www.footnote.com/
    You must register for this one but it is free for the census info.
    OK Thanks
    This is an area that I have no idea what to do but ..... hey!
    Everything helps and in the last 24 hours with the help of the Chatter I can't believe the positive support...
  • vdubb96
    WOW belly good luck in whatever you decide!!!!
  • LJ
    Just an FYI, the 1940 census is not out. It's every 72 years that they are released, so we have 2 more years until 1940 comes out.

    Goodluck on your search Belly.
  • Swamp Fox
    Belly,

    My wife was put up for adoption by her biological mother because the woman was unmarried and did not feel that she could raise the baby. My wife to be was then adopted and she was brought up to Ohio from Louisville, KY. and I met her when we were both in the third grade. My wife loved her adoptive family very much and they were really nice people but from a fairly early age, my wife wanted to find her real mother. Not because she was angry at her for putting her in an orphanage, but just to "know" her real mother. Years and years of searching one dead end after another became more and more discouraging, when we received information that one of her "real" family was living in Colorado. Out of the blue one night we received a phone call from this family member who was living in Golden, Colorado, a suburb of Denver. I was there as my wife began talking to this person and as the conversation continued, it was becoming very clear to me that this "family member" was her biological mother. When my wife hung up that's what I said to her. She thought so also. Long story short, a few months later her "real" mother hopped on a plane and flew to Ohio and when I got home from school that afternoon I was face to face with her. There was no doubt about the relationship. They looked identical. Sadly, she didn't live all that long after our reunion and she had some baggage that was unfortunate as well, but she was my wife's mother and it was an amazing journey to find her. I'm glad we did it. Good luck to you in your search.

    I think every kid who is adopted has at least a little curiosity about their real parents and I wish you well in your venture. It was truly exciting when we actually were visiting with her mom.
  • Belly35
    Swamp Fox wrote: Belly,

    My wife was put up for adoption by her biological mother because the woman was unmarried and did not feel that she could raise the baby. My wife to be was then adopted and she was brought up to Ohio from Louisville, KY. and I met her when we were both in the third grade. My wife loved her adoptive family very much and they were really nice people but from a fairly early age, my wife wanted to find her real mother. Not because she was angry at her for putting her in an orphanage, but just to "know" her real mother. Years and years of searching one dead end after another became more and more discouraging, when we received information that one of her "real" family was living in Colorado. Out of the blue one night we received a phone call from this family member who was living in Golden, Colorado, a suburb of Denver. I was there as my wife began talking to this person and as the conversation continued, it was becoming very clear to me that this "family member" was her biological mother. When my wife hung up that's what I said to her. She thought so also. Long story short, a few months later her "real" mother hopped on a plane and flew to Ohio and when I got home from school that afternoon I was face to face with her. There was no doubt about the relationship. They looked identical. Sadly, she didn't live all that long after our reunion and she had some baggage that was unfortunate as well, but she was my wife's mother and it was an amazing journey to find her. I'm glad we did it. Good luck to you in your search.

    I think every kid who is adopted has at least a little curiosity about their real parents and I wish you well in your venture. It was truly exciting when we actually were visiting with her mom.
    It seem that as kids we know something not right or the feeling inside is just not what it should be....strange feeling

    Thank you for sharing ...nice very nice

    Thank you
  • Sonofanump
    At what age should a parent inform the child or at what age as a child do you think that you would want to know about the adoption?
  • BRF
    I like this thread, belly! Good reading.
  • Timber
    Belly,

    As an adoptive parent... I wish you all the best in your journey...

    I have not had any biological children, but I do not think it is possible to love any child more than we do our little one. Take incredible comfort in knowing whomever raised you... probably loved you as much as any biological child has been loved.

    Best wishes...
  • Timber
    Sonofanump wrote: At what age should a parent inform the child or at what age as a child do you think that you would want to know about the adoption?
    I think the age depends on the situation... We adopted a child from Asia. Neither my wife or I are Asian.... So we have talked openly with her her concerning adoption from her earliest days. She (4) just told someone the other day "I was not in my mommy's belly" LOL

    She obviously does not understand the concept yet... and she will have many questions about her birth family as she grows older. We will take her lead on how it is handled.

    I am not sure what the right age is.... I guess it is when you think the child can handle the information... and somewhat understand the situation. I just know I would not want my child to find out from someone else first... you know how people will chatter.
  • equus
    Belly,

    PM sent


    GBlock

    Grew up in Byesville? who would you be?
  • Belly35
    The saga of Belly search:

    With the help of many of the Chatter in the area of Byesville or Barnesville I have made two phone calls in my search.
    The Chatter support has been great ..Thank you so much

    The first was not the correct person by was very helpful in providing additional lead. That I will follow later….
    The second I had left a voice message (3 times on three different days) with no reply or call back yet.
    So until I can speak to the second individual and I will try a few more times I will have to move forward with the leads the first person had provided for me. It could make a full circle back to the second person …who knows.