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thavoice

.....is pretty damned easy, convenient when you ask them after coming out of "going under" for a surgery.

Does it make one a bad person by using this window of opportunity to get some nonobstructive answers?

THE4RINGZ

It doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you one who take the best of what opportunities are presented to you.

However, there is a reason anything said in that condition would not be allowed as credible evidence in a court of law, they weren't in control of thier senses, so take what they might say as just that.

Con_Alma

Are they of sound mind? Are you sure?

It might be important to know.

thavoice

Ha. No, no information would be used in a court of law....I meant mostly about.....well.....how the person feels and thinks and stuff.

Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!

THE4RINGZ

You might get the truth with them in that state, but you might just be stirrng up a hornet's nest you really don't want to deal with.

thavoice

^^^yeah...ive noticed.

but it is very good info to have and now I have a point of reference moving forward.

enigmaax

thavoice wrote: Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!

The only thing is that just because they are speaking what is on their mind doesn't mean it is the truth. I've had moments of being under the influence - of anything from cold medicine to whatever they used to knock me out for surgery - in which I talked about a lot of crazy shit. Apparently I was having weird dreams, visions, thoughts, whatever. Just because I said what was on my mind didn't mean my brain was processing reality or truths.

thavoice

^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....

enigmaax

thavoice wrote: ^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....

Yeah maybe for you. I don't know, though, if I'd classify things like that as "truth", at least in my case. For example, I've said things like, "Yes, I do find you attractive" and "Sure I'd be interested in you even if I hadn't drank 17 beers" and "I'll give you a call tomorrow". I mean, I may have meant them at the time, but after sober consideration those statements couldn't have been farther from the truth.

THE4RINGZ

There's no shame in putting on the beer goggles from time to time.

thavoice

enigmaax wrote:
thavoice wrote: ^^Probably true. But I know when Im under a certain state there are things i will say that normally I would hold back and not say certain things....
Yeah maybe for you. I don't know, though, if I'd classify things like that as "truth", at least in my case. For example, I've said things like, "Yes, I do find you attractive" and "Sure I'd be interested in you even if I hadn't drank 17 beers" and "I'll give you a call tomorrow". I mean, I may have meant them at the time, but after sober consideration those statements couldn't have been farther from the truth.

ha. well..yeah...ive been there...dont that too!

but what if the info ya get from this tactic re inforces what you believed already

enigmaax

Okay, so if you thought your chic was banging someone else and you questioned her while she was hopped up and she said she is banging someone else, it is probably true. But you probably didn't need to go that far, it you thought it to begin with, it was probably true.

Since you're talking about it, you might as well spill the whole story. Sure would make it easier to form an opinion and to offer worthless advice.

thavoice

No no, nothing like that. Just general stuff....no need to go into it on a message board. Ya kno...do ya think ya see a future...stuff like that.

has been informative tho.

as for worthless advice...I thought I cornered that market years ago.

enigmaax

So you're telling me that you had this opportunity and the best you could come up with was, "do you think you see a future with me"?

You didn't try to pry any kind of past coverups or secret fantasies out? If your going to be unethical, you might as well make it worth your time. I mean, didn't you already have a pretty good idea as to whether or not there could be a future?

thavoice

I did also get her PIN code for her ATM.

It was bosco.

se-alum

thavoice wrote: Ha. No, no information would be used in a court of law....I meant mostly about.....well.....how the person feels and thinks and stuff.

Ive heard that to get a person to truly speak their mind...get em drunk...or after coming outta surgery as they dont have that filter and speak what is R E A L L Y on their mind!

"The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"

enigmaax

se-alum wrote: "The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"

So you are saying I really do like ugly chics and want to have telephone conversations with them?

karen lotz

se-alum

enigmaax wrote:
se-alum wrote: "The Drunk Mind Speaks The Sober Truth"
So you are saying I really do like ugly chics and want to have telephone conversations with them?

I didn't say it makes sober decisions!!

GoChiefs

Heretic

I'd say getting straight answers from someone while they're coming out of surgery is definitely a better way to do so than torture. Maybe less rewarding, but a lot more humane.

THE4RINGZ

Questions I would have asked:
(and recorded the answers for further evidence)

Can we have a threesome with your hottest friend?

Is is OK if I go to Vegas for a "golf trip" next month?

Have you ever been with another woman?

Would you ever sleep with one of my friends?

Who do you really think about when we are having sex?

CenterBHSFan

Chiefs,

I've always loved that video.

:55 = awesome!!!!

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