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Lesbians make good mothers

  • LJ
    jmog;393997 wrote:.

    On topic I agree with most on this thread, the study was extremely flawed/biased. I don't know if lesbians are better or worse parents, but I also agree with most that a home that actually wanted/meant to have kids with 2 loving parents will always tend to have "better" kids (on average) than unwanted pregnancies or single parents.

    I agree with this. Lesbians don't have too many "oopsies" if ya know what I mean. Therefore a much higher percentage of lesbians will have "wanted" children than straight people.
  • jhay78
    They may indeed make decent mothers, but probably not-so-good fathers.

    Since Father's Day weekend is upon us, here's a little info the importance of fathers in a child's life:

    http://www.citizenlink.org/FOSI/marriage/A000002226.cfm

    http://www.fatherhood.gov/statistics/index.cfm

    From above article:
    Children with involved, loving fathers are significantly more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem, exhibit empathy and pro-social behavior, and avoid high-risk behaviors such as drug use, truancy, and criminal activity compared to children who have uninvolved fathers.
    Studies on parent-child relationships and child wellbeing show that father love is an important factor in predicting the social, emotional, and cognitive development and functioning of children and young adults.
    24 million children (34 percent) live absent their biological father.
    Nearly 20 million children (27 percent) live in single-parent homes.
    43 percent of first marriages dissolve within fifteen years; about 60 percent of divorcing couples have children; and approximately one million children each year experience the divorce of their parents.
    Fathers who live with their children are more likely to have a close, enduring relationship with their children than those who do not.
    Compared to children born within marriage, children born to cohabiting parents are three times as likely to experience father absence, and children born to unmarried, non-cohabiting parents are four times as likely to live in a father-absent home.
    About 40 percent of children in father-absent homes have not seen their father at all during the past year; 26 percent of absent fathers live in a different state than their children; and 50 percent of children living absent their father have never set foot in their father's home.
    Children who live absent their biological fathers are, on average, at least two to three times more likely to be poor, to use drugs, to experience educational, health, emotional and behavioral problems, to be victims of child abuse, and to engage in criminal behavior than their peers who live with their married, biological (or adoptive) parents.
    From 1995 to 2000, the proportion of children living in single-parent homes slightly declined, while the proportion of children living with two married parents remained stable.
  • THE4RINGZ
    A Chinese born girl raised by lesbian parents. Hello LPGA.
  • dwccrew
    isadore;387927 wrote:I have doubts about the particular study you cited for the reasons listed above but I think children are better off in homes straight or gay where they are wanted, the partners are stable, and have the resources to provide for them.

    A pig just flew by my window because I agree 100% with you on this one, Isi.
  • Tiernan
    and don't kid yourselves some lezbos are really good in the sack with a man too. They may not be getting anything out it personally but they like to "pay forward" so to speak.