My fall new wrestling officials training class is over. 16 new wrestling referees have been unleashed unto the world. I wish them well.
The journey now really begins. All they know now is enough to pass the test. Now they must learn to administrate those rules. I wish tonight as they left, I could of given each man a gift. A box of tools, and inside that box were the following traits that when they needed them, they could reach right in and pull one out. In reality, we all carry around that “box”. It takes years to fill that box with the right stuff.
I offer each new referee the gift of:
Alertness - Be aware that the safety of each wrestler is paramount.
Appreciation – Kid hits a great move, savor it. He worked hard to master it.
Aspiration - Reach for the stars, you will get there.
Cheerfulness - Leave your own troubles mat side
Communication - Learn to do this effectively with coaches. They will appreciate it.
Confidence – Reek of it without being cocky
Curiosity - Don’t know something? Find it out. Ask questions.
Decisiveness – Be firm. Be quick. Everything is based on a knowledge of the rules.
Excellence - Strive to be the best you can be.
Ethics – Don’t have them? Hang up the whistle, quickly.
Fairness – Do the right thing.
Family – Don’t forget this. Without family, you are a lonely person.
Forgiveness - Don’t hold grudges. Let things go.
Humility – It’s truly not about you out there.
Loyalty - Don’t degrade your fellow refs in public.
Perseverance - It really will get easier to remember which arm is green or red.
Positive Attitude - Why have any other type?
Preparation - This is the key. Read. Study. Mat time Mat time and more Mat time.
Punctuality - Always a hour ahead of start time.
Resilience - You will mess up. Get over it.
Values - Don’t have any? Get some…quickly.
Wisdom - Of all the gifts, this will take the longest. With this gift, all others will come.